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Book giveaway!

In Uncategorized on November 18, 2016 at 3:59 pm

To celebrate the holidays this year, I’m going to give away 50 signed, personalized copies of my book SuperBetter (United States mailing addresses only):

  • at least 40 hardback copies
  • and 10 audiobook copies (CD format, not MP3 — sorry, I know most people don’t listen to anything on CD anymore, but if your car has a CD player, this could be useful!)

I will personalize the book or the CDs to you, or to anyone you want!

All I ask is that you pay for shipping (via Paypal). I will be shipping it priority USPS, so that’s $6.

If you are interested in a free, personalized signed book, send an email to janemcgonigal@yahoo.com and please use the subject BOOK or AUDIOBOOK (depending on which you want). Include your mailing address so I know you’re in the United States. I will reply if you are one of the first 50 to respond, ask who you want me to sign it to and let you know how to send me $6 on paypal 🙂

If you would like a BUNCH of signed books to give to people (up to 10 books) let me know and I can see what I can do 🙂

I will ship these books in early December.

How to think like a futurist: Recommended readings

In Uncategorized on September 12, 2016 at 6:43 pm

Download the syllabus for Stanford Continuing Studies Course “How to Think Like a Futurist”: how-to-think-like-a-futurist-stanford-cs-jane-mcgonigal

Week one: Creativity

General reading/viewing

The 2080 Census: The World as we Don’t Know It

Look back twice as far as you want to look forward: the Census throughout history

Scientific papers

Fit between future thinking and future orientation on creative imagination

  • increasing the temporal distance of future thinking facilitates creative thinking
  • Additionally, one’s creative imagination can be improved when thinking timescales and future orientation are aligned

Self-projection and the brain (3 core processes are the same)

Counterfactual thinking: an FMRI study on changing the past for a better future

Remembering what could have happened: Neural correlates of episodic counterfactual thinking

Episodic future thinking and episodic counterfactual thinking: Intersections between memory and decisions

Neural activity associated with self, other, and object-based counterfactual thinking

With an eye toward the future: The Impact of Counterfactual thinking on Affect, Attitudes and Behavior

Cognitive neuroscience of human counterfactual reasoning (past and future)

From what might have been to what must have been: Counterfactual thinking creates meaning

The functional theory of counterfactual thinking

Is there a core neural network in empathy?

The social cognitive neuroscience of empathy

Two systems for empathy

The necessity of others in the mother of invention

Week two: Imagination

General reading/viewing

Six Rules for Effective Forecasting

Institute for the Future – Ten-Year Forecasts

Learning is Earning in the National Learning Economy – Institute for the Future Research Map

The Story of the Chinese Farmer (video)

Society as a Social Invention and You as a Social Inventor

Foresight Signals: A Futurist’s Vacation Reading List

Scientific papers

Desirable and undesirable futures call for different scene construction processes

 

Week three: Personal change

General reading/viewing

The psychology of future you (Video)

Scientific papers

Time Metrics Matter: Connecting Present and Future Selves

When does the future begin? A study in maximising motivation

Psychological connectedness to the future self

Episodic Future Thinking Reduces Reward Delay Discounting through an Enhancement of Prefrontal-Mediotemporal Interactions

The Future is Now: Reducing Impulsivity Using Episodic Future Thinking

Become more optimistic by imagining a best possible self

“Remembering and imagining: the role of the self” (focusing stories about the future on significant narrative/goal milestones to enhance creativity/foresight)

Episodic future thought and its relationship to remembering (on the importance of signal exposure for autobiographical futures)

Eye movement disrupts future episodic thinking (on the importance of visual-spatial details in autobiographical futures)

“Back to the future: Autobiographical planning and the functionality of mind-wandering”

Week four: Influence

General reading/viewing

Some hints on writing preferred futures

Visioning and future studies and Why imagine the future?

Wanted: Professors of Foresight

Six Artifacts from the Future

Week five: Collective Imagination

General reading/viewing

What If? Everybody on Earth jumped at the same time

What If? Everyone actually had only one soul mate?

Measures of future orientation and self-effficacy

Development of future orientation and self-efficacy – see Appendix A for measurement tools

Time Perspective Inventory

happy holidays… with a personalized YouTube video from me!

In Uncategorized on December 14, 2015 at 3:35 pm

Here’s a fun idea for a holiday gift for someone you hope will have an amazing year in 2016:

Give someone a copy of SuperBetter (any version — hardback, Kindle, or audio) and I’ll make a personalized YouTube video for them wishing them a happy new year full of adventure, power-ups and creativity as they vanquish their bad guys and achieve their biggest goals.

Buy a copy for yourself, and I’ll make you a video too 🙂

Here’s how it works. Buy any copy online and forward the email confirmation to jane@superbetter.com.  If you bought it at brick-and-mortar store, snap a photo of the receipt and send me that. I’ll email you a link to an unlisted Youtube video! BE SURE TO INCLUDE THE NAME OF THE PERSON I AM MAKING THE VIDEO FOR SO I CAN SAY THEIR NAME IN THE VIDEO! And include any other relevant information you’d like to help me personalize it even more.

Note: This is valid for copies purchased December 14 – 31, 2015 only.

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“Hundreds of thousands of people have had their lives changed by Jane McGonigal’s SuperBetter program, and I see why. It’s a marriage of positive psychology with pioneering insights from cutting-edge game design. This is a plan for profound growth in the face of whatever challenges life throws at you – and whatever ones you can throw at yourself.” – Charles Duhigg, bestselling author of The Power of Habit

 

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Come play with me at SUPERBETTER events this fall!

In Uncategorized on August 17, 2015 at 6:35 pm

Superbetter_3dI’ll be on the road this September and October for the SUPERBETTER book launch. I’m doing lots of public events, so come out and see me — we’ll talk, we’ll play a game, I’ll sign books!

If you see me coming to your city and would like to organize another talk or book signing (at a school, your company, a bookstore, wherever!) email me! I’m jane@avantgame.com

IF YOU REALLY WANT TO COME SEE ME AND YOU LIVE IN A CITY WHERE THE ONLY TALK I’M DOING REQUIRES AN EXPENSIVE CONFERENCE OR FESTIVAL PASS, TWEET AT ME AND I WILL SEE IF I CAN SMUGGLE YOU IN. SERIOUSLY. @avantgame

EDMONTON

September 10 – IGNITE Festival (festival pass required)

NEW YORK CITY

September 15 – New York Public Library, Celeste Bartos Forum (Midtown) – 6 PM – save the date

September 16 – NYU Game Lab (Brooklyn) – 7 PM – save the date

BOSTON

September 17 – Google HQ (employees only) – 11 AM

September 17 – MIT’s Bartos Theatre – 7 PM – event details

SEATTLE

September 21 – Town Hall – 7:30 PM – reserve your ticket

MOUNTAIN VIEW

September 22 – Computer History Museum – 6:30 PM – register now

TORONTO

September 24 – Ramsay Talks at the Hot Docs Cinema – 6:30 PM – ticket required

September 25 – Rotman School of Business – 8 AM – ticket required

NANTUCKET

September 26 – The Nantucket Project – conference pass required

SANTA CRUZ

September 28 – The Bookshop – 7 PM – details here

CHICAGO

September 30 – 1871 in the Merchandise Mart – reserve your ticket now!

PORTLAND

October 5 – Powell’s at Cedar Hills Crossing – details coming soon!

LOS ANGELES

October 30 – Playful Learning Summit – ticket required

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Win private coaching, a custom secret identity, and more

In Uncategorized on August 7, 2015 at 1:50 pm

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I’m giving away a LOT of cool rewards to everyone who preorders my new book. Here’s how it works:

STEP ONE: Preorder my new book.

(Just click here: Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble online,  Indiebound)

STEP TWO: Fill out this 30-second form!

Here’s what you’ll get:

EVERYONE WINS three awesome rewards: 

1. a signed book plate with a handwritten message from me

2. VIP access to a private Google hangout/online chat, where I will answer all your questions about ANYTHING YOU WANT!

3. a secret code for a brand new SUPERBETTER power pack full of quests, power-ups and bad guys that will ONLY be available to people who pre-order the book. (Download the power pack on the SuperBetter.com website or app)

You will also be entered to win a few really special rewards…

* your own custom SUPERBETTER adventure, designed by ME for YOU: tell me what challenge you want to tackle or a change you want to make, and I will work with SuperBetter’s science advisors to create a totally personalized set of quests, power-ups and bad guys JUST FOR YOU (1 winner)

* a brand new secret identity that I invent for you, based on a “signature strengths” and a “hero dream team” quest that you and I will do together (2 winners)

* a private online SUPERBETTER coaching session with Jane, via Google Hangout or Skype! (3 winners)

(If you win, you can keep the prize or give it to anyone you want… make someone’s day by helping them get superbetter!)

Remember: 1. Pre-order the book. 2. Fill out this form. YOU WIN!

You’re surrounded by potential allies

In Uncategorized on July 15, 2015 at 2:46 pm

Are you looking for potential allies? The world is full of people getting Superbetter! Click on a tagboard to find YOUR next ally…

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Praise for SUPERBETTER the book!

In Uncategorized on May 31, 2015 at 7:13 am

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“Hundreds of thousands of people have had their lives changed by Jane McGonigal’s SuperBetter program, and I see why. It’s a marriage of positive psychology with pioneering insights from cutting-edge game design. This is a plan for profound growth in the face of whatever challenges life throws at you – and whatever ones you can throw at yourself.” – Charles Duhigg, bestselling author of The Power of Habit

Check out what others have to say about SUPERBETTER the book, and then join the movement (and the fun!) by pre-ordering it now!

Get it on Amazon.com * * * Get it on Indiebound.com * * * Get it on Barnes & Noble ***

Help your company get superbetter with a 40% discount on orders of 100 copies or more via CEOReads!

Don’t we all want to be better than before? If fact, we’d like to be super better! Jane McGonigal’s fascinating, ground-breaking approach shows how ‘living gamefully’ can help us lead happier, healthier, more engaged lives.” – Gretchen Rubin, bestselling author of Better Than Before and The Happiness Project

“Many of us struggle to overcome challenges that seem overwhelming. Jane McGonigal has taken her immense knowledge of the science of gaming to create an innovative guide that allowed her to overcome her greatest challenge and now, thankfully, is available to each of us to overcome our own.” – James R. Doty, M.D., Professor of Neurosurgery, Stanford University School of Medicine

“At the heart of SUPERBETTER is a simple and potentially transformative idea: We can use the same psychological strengths we display when we play games to confront real-life challenges, whether it’s illness, injury, or just changing our habits for the better. Grounded in research and informed by McGonigal’s own sometimes harrowing experiences, this book will make you stop and think, then get you to act.” – Daniel H. Pink, bestselling author of Drive and A Whole New Mind.

“Jane McGonigal’s book is an inspiring one about overcoming personal obstacles, and a revolutionary testament that game playing is for ANYONE who wants to change their life for the better.  To become stronger, braver, and happier, you have to ‘play with a purpose.’ And if you don’t know what that means, get ready… you will.” – Stacy London, host What Not to Wear and author of The Truth About Style

In this dazzling manifesto, Jane McGonigal knits together state-of-the-art research, moving anecdotes, and extremely satisfying mini-challenges to show us how games—video and otherwise—hold the key to a more productive, joyous life. A game designer by training and an empath by nature, McGonigal uses every power-up at her disposal to convince her audience that the very tools we deploy in imaginary worlds can be used to overcome struggles in everyday life. The result is a candy-crushing, genre-slaying read, for which fans will surely be sending her gratitude notes for years to come.” – Jennifer Senior, author of All Joy and No Fun

“SUPERBETTER is an amazing book that fuses psychology and play in an revelatory way. With a wonderfully encouraging writing style, Jane morphs the tropes of gaming into an empowering tool set for change. SUPERBETTER is impeccably researched, extremely accessible, and sure to inspire gamers and non-gamers to adopt gameful techniques into their day-to-day lives. The sword of self-improvement never seemed easier to wield against the monsters lurking in one’s mind!” – Felicia Day, creator of Geek and Sundry and author of You’re Never Weird on the Internet (Almost)

“SUPERBETTER delivers mind-boggling, science-supported, health-promoting knowledge and practical steps to bring more well-being into your life in a fun and engaging way, even if you are facing epic challenges like anxiety, depression, traumatic brain injury, or medical illness. Visionary innovator and researcher Jane McGonigal provides the proof and the practices that reveal how living a ‘gameful’ life can help you get personally stronger, closer to others, clearer in your mind, braver in your actions, and a greater hero in your own unfolding life story. SUPERBETTER is a playful, hands-on manual immersing you directly in challenges and adventures of creative gaming to develop more flexibility and resilience as you transform your life.” – Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., Clinical Professor, UCLA School of Medicine and author of Mindsight

“You can’t think your way out of a problem, but you can work your way out of a problem. SUPERBETTER shows us that it’s also possible, and maybe even healthier, to play your way out of a problem. Especially if you’re a silly person, like me or Stephen Hawking.” – Rob Delaney, comedian and author of Rob Delaney: Mother. Wife. Sister. Human. Warrior. Falcon. Yardstick. Turban. Cabbage.

“Until you understand yourselves as the hero of your own story, you’ll never make a dent in the world. This insightful book shows you how create the life of your dreams, using a gameful approach.” – Nilofer Merchant, CEO, Silicon Valley strategist and author of The New How

“Jane McGonigal is easily one of the most innovative thinkers in gaming today. In SUPERBETTER, she reveals to the world a great secret that avid game players kept for years: games are not a waste of your time; they can make you stronger, happier and more mindful. Reading this book is a compelling quest for anyone – whether you play games regularly, or you just have an open mind about them.” – Asi Burak, President of Games for Change

““This book is a wise and compassionate distillation of a wealth of good research about the psychology and neuroscience of resilience and social support, married to a game framework that itself comes out of rigorous new science into the psychology and neuroscience of gaming.  SuperBetter has been studied in action by the University of Pennsylvania and the National Institutes of Health, among others, and the facts are incontrovertible: following the SuperBetter rules makes people happier, more satisfied, less controlled by suffering, and stronger in their relationships with others.  It really works.” – Amy Cuddy, associate professor at Harvard  Business School and author of Presence

“Masterfully written and well researched, SUPERBETTER is literally a game-changer for anybody looking to build resilience in their lives. Though today’s rapidly evolving world can often seem overwhelming, McGonigal offers an important and timely roadmap to take back control of our own lives and focus on what really matters.” – Marc Goodman, author of Future Crimes and Chair for Policy, Law & Ethics at Singularity University

“SUPERBETTER gives you a simple, specific, potent strategy for becoming psychologically stronger: the regular, purposeful use of games in your everyday life. Based on cutting-edge science, it will overturn many assumptions you may have made about games. And the real kicker is that the writing style of Jane McGonigal is a game in itself!” – Todd Kashdan, professor of psychology at George Mason University, and author of The Upside of Your Dark Side

Get it on Amazon.com * * * Get it on Indiebound.com * * * Get it on Barnes & Noble ***

Help your company get superbetter with a 40% discount on orders of 100 copies or more via CEOReads!

Where to find allies online

In Uncategorized on February 19, 2015 at 2:17 pm

***If you’ve created or are participating in a SuperBetter support or ally group, add a link to it in the comments!***

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Art by Finlay Cowan. http://www.superbetter.com

Social media

You can discover fellow players by searching for the hashtag #superbetter on social media networks, like Instagram, Twitter, and Pinterest. (I’ve made a surprising number of virtual allies this way!)

#SuperBetter on Twitter

#SuperBetter on Instagram – search via Iconosquare ; #SuperBetter on Instagram – search via Websta

#SuperBetter on Tumblr

#SuperBetter on Pinterest

Discussion forums

There are also discussion forums and social media groups online for just about any challenge you can imagine. Not sure where to start? I’ve gathered links to popular forums and groups for the most common SuperBetter challenges. You may find it helpful to explain the SuperBetter method to others on the forum by sharing a link to the book, the online app, or the TED talk. Or post this image!

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Addiction, recovery and rehab: Recovery.org community

Anxiety: Anxiety Forum, Anxiety and Depression Support Group on Facebook

Chronic Illness: Healingwell.com support forums have active communities for challenges like Chrohn’s, Fibromyalgia, migraines, Rheumatoid Athritis, and more

Depression: /r/depression 

Fitness and Weight Loss: My Fitness Pal forums, Fitocracy online community

IBS: IBS self help and support forums

LGBT support: Empty Closets forums

Mental health: Psychcentral Forums have active, thriving communities for BiPolar, Eating disorders, OCD, Self-injury and more

Parenting: /r/parenting, Mothering forums

Pregnancy and Babies: TheBump forumsBaby Center community

PTSD: MyPTSD.com,

Running: Runner’s world forums

Social Anxiety: Social Anxiety Forum and Support

Support for anything and everything: Try supportgroups.com for support with everything from loneliness, stress and relationship challenges to anger management, pet loss, and grief

These are just the tip of the iceberg. There are countless more out there, so if you don’t find what you need here, make it a quest to find one more today!

***If you’ve created or are participating in a SuperBetter support or ally group, add a link to it in the comments!***

The science behind SuperBetter

In Uncategorized on February 18, 2015 at 5:10 pm
Art by Finlay Cowan. www.superbetter.com

Art by Finlay Cowan. http://www.superbetter.com

Dear fellow science geeks, researchers, and lifelong learners:

Here you’ll find all the references from my book SuperBetter: A Revolutionary Approach to Getting Stronger, Happier, Braver and More Resilient — Powered by the science of games (Penguin Press, September 15, 2015). These are more than 500 of my favorite scientific studies and books about post-traumatic growth, the psychology and neuroscience of games, the relationship between a gameful mindset and better health and happiness, and everything else that’s superbetter.

Wherever possible, I have linked to a PDF of the full article, so you can really dig in. If the scientific article is available only to subscribers of a particular journal, you may be able to get access at your local library or university. I promise I’ll do my best to keep this page updated, but if you discover a broken link, try searching for the article in Google Scholar. And for new studies that weren’t published yet when I wrote my book, go here!

Enjoy!

Introduction

Mackelprang, Jessica L., et al. “Rates and predictors of suicidal ideation during the first year after traumatic brain injury.” American journal of public health 0 (2014).

Bahraini, Nazanin H., et al. “Suicidal ideation and behaviours after traumatic brain injury: A systematic review.” Brain Impairment 14.01 (2013): 92-112.

Tedeschi, Richard G., and Lawrence G. Calhoun. “Posttraumatic Growth: Conceptual Foundations and Empirical Evidence.” Psychological inquiry 15.1 (2004): 1-18.

Wagner, Birgit, Christine Knaevelsrud, and Andreas Maercker. “Post‐Traumatic Growth and Optimism as Outcomes of an Internet‐Based Intervention for Complicated Grief.” Cognitive Behaviour Therapy 36.3 (2007): 156-161.

Calhoun, Lawrence G., and Richard G. Tedeschi. “Beyond recovery from trauma: Implications for clinical practice and research.” Journal of Social Issues 54.2 (1998): 357-371.

Quiros, Laura. “Trauma, recovery, and growth: Positive psychological perspectives on posttraumatic stress.” (2010): 118-121.

Joseph, Stephen, and P. Alex Linley. “Growth following adversity: Theoretical perspectives and implications for clinical practice.” Clinical psychology review26.8 (2006): 1041-1053.

Tedeschi, Richard G., and Lawrence G. Calhoun. “The Posttraumatic Growth Inventory: Measuring the positive legacy of trauma.” Journal of traumatic stress 9.3 (1996): 455-471.

Cordova, Matthew J., et al. “Posttraumatic growth following breast cancer: a controlled comparison study.” Health Psychology 20.3 (2001): 176.

Cadell, Susan, Cheryl Regehr, and David Hemsworth. “Factors contributing to posttraumatic growth: A proposed structural equation model.” American Journal of Orthopsychiatry 73.3 (2003): 279-28.

Werdel, Mary Beth, and Robert J. Wicks. Primer on Posttraumatic Growth: An Introduction and Guide. John Wiley & Sons, 2012.

Phelps, Kenneth W., et al. “Enrichment, stress, and growth from parenting an individual with an autism spectrum disorder.” Journal of Intellectual and Developmental Disability 34.2 (2009): 133-141.

Devine, Katie A., et al. “Posttraumatic growth in young adults who experienced serious childhood illness: A mixed-methods approach.” Journal of clinical psychology in medical settings 17.4 (2010): 340-348.

Joseph, Stephen. What Doesn’t Kill Us Makes Us Stronger: The New Psychology of Posttraumatic Growth. Basic Books, 2011;

Jones, Janelle M., et al. “That which doesn’t kill us can make us stronger (and more satisfied with life): The contribution of personal and social changes to well-being after acquired brain injury.” Psychology and Health 26.3 (2011): 353-369.

Ware, Bronnie. “Regrets of the Dying.” November 19, 2009. http://bronnieware.com/regrets-of-the-dying/. The article was subsequently expanded to a full-length book: The top five regrets of the dying. Hay House, Inc, 2012.

Roepke, Ann Marie. “Psychosocial Interventions and Posttraumatic Growth: A Meta-Analysis.” (2014).

Roepke, Ann Marie. “Gains without pains? Growth after positive events.” The Journal of Positive Psychology 8.4 (2013): 280-291.

Tremblay, Mark Stephen, et al. “Physiological and health implications of a sedentary lifestyle.” Applied Physiology, Nutrition, and Metabolism 35.6 (2010): 725-740.

Barrientos, Ruth M., et al. “Little exercise, big effects: reversing aging and infection-induced memory deficits, and underlying processes.” The Journal of Neuroscience 31.32 (2011): 11578-11586.

Healy, Genevieve N., et al. “Breaks in Sedentary Time Beneficial associations with metabolic risk.” Diabetes care 31.4 (2008): 661-666.

Martin, Corby K., et al. “Exercise dose and quality of life: a randomized controlled trial.” Archives of Internal Medicine 169.3 (2009): 269.

Hagger, Martin S., et al. “Ego depletion and the strength model of self-control: a meta-analysis.” Psychological bulletin 136.4 (2010): 495.

Fredrickson, Barbara L. “The role of positive emotions in positive psychology: The broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions.” American psychologist56.3 (2001): 218.

Fredrickson, Barbara L. “What good are positive emotions?.” Review of general psychology 2.3 (1998): 300.

Pressman, Sarah D., and Sheldon Cohen. “Does positive affect influence health?.” Psychological bulletin 131.6 (2005): 925.

Kashdan, Todd B., Paul Rose, and Frank D. Fincham. “Curiosity and exploration: Facilitating positive subjective experiences and personal growth opportunities.” Journal of personality assessment 82.3 (2004): 291-305.

Kashdan, Todd. Curious?: Discover The Missing Ingredient To A Fulfilling Life. Harper Paperbacks Pages.” (2010): 352.

Nittono, Hiroshi, et al. “The power of kawaii: Viewing cute images promotes a careful behavior and narrows attentional focus.” PloS one 7.9 (2012): e46362.

Holt-Lunstad, Julianne, Wendy A. Birmingham, and Kathleen C. Light. “Influence of a “warm touch” support enhancement intervention among married couples on ambulatory blood pressure, oxytocin, alpha amylase, and cortisol.Psychosomatic Medicine 70.9 (2008): 976-985.

Dunbar, Robin IM. “The social role of touch in humans and primates: behavioural function and neurobiological mechanisms.” Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews 34.2 (2010): 260-268;

Moberg, Kerstin Uvnäs. The oxytocin factor: Tapping the hormone of calm, love, and healing. Merloyd Lawrence Books, 2003.

Emmons, Robert A., and Cheryl A. Crumpler. “Gratitude as a human strength: Appraising the evidence.” Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 19.1 (2000): 56-69.

Algoe, Sara B. “Find, remind, and bind: The functions of gratitude in everyday relationships.” Social and Personality Psychology Compass 6.6 (2012): 455-469.

Algoe, Sara B., Jonathan Haidt, and Shelly L. Gable. “Beyond reciprocity: gratitude and relationships in everyday life.” Emotion 8.3 (2008): 425.

Lenhart, Amanda, et al. “Teens, Video Games and Civics.” Pew Internet Life Report. September 16, 2008.

McGonigal, Jane. Reality is broken: Why games make us better and how they can change the world. New York: Penguin, 2011.

Part One: Why Games Make Us SuperBetter

Cacioppo, John T., Joseph R. Priester, and Gary G. Berntson. “Rudimentary determinants of attitudes: II. Arm flexion and extension have differential effects on attitudes.” Journal of personality and social psychology 65.1 (1993): 5.

Pollick, Amy S., and Frans BM De Waal. “Ape gestures and language evolution.” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 104.19 (2007): 8184-8189.

McNeill, David, et al. “Growth points from the very beginning.” Interaction Studies 9.1 (2008): 117-132.

Chapter One: You Are Stronger Than You Know

Hoffman, Hunter G., et al. “Virtual reality as an adjunctive non-pharmacologic analgesic for acute burn pain during medical procedures.” Annals of Behavioral Medicine 41.2 (2011): 183-191.

You can find up-to-date information about the availability of Snow World virtual reality for pain relief at http://www.hitl.washington.edu/projects/vrpain/

Hoffman, Hunter G. “Virtual Reality Therapy.” Scientific American. 60 – 65. August 2004.

Hoffman, Hunter G., et al. “Using fMRI to study the neural correlates of virtual reality analgesia.” CNS Spectr 11.1 (2006): 45-51.

Jameson, Eleanor, Judy Trevena, and Nic Swain. “Electronic gaming as pain distraction.” Pain Research & Management: The Journal of the Canadian Pain Society 16.1 (2011): 27.

Greco, Molly. Effectiveness of an iPad as a distraction tool for children during a medical procedure. Diss. BALL STATE UNIVERSITY, 2013.

Windich-Biermeier, Andrea, et al. “Effects of distraction on pain, fear, and distress during venous port access and venipuncture in children and adolescents with cancer.” Journal of Pediatric Oncology Nursing 24.1 (2007): 8-19.

Gutman, Sharon A., and Victoria P. Schindler. “The neurological basis of occupation.” Occupational therapy international 14.2 (2007): 71-85.

Nainis, Nancy, et al. “Relieving symptoms in cancer: innovative use of art therapy.” Journal of pain and symptom management 31.2 (2006): 162-169.

Wegner, Daniel M., et al. “Paradoxical effects of thought suppression.” Journal of personality and social psychology 53.1 (1987): 5; also, Lakoff, George. Don’t think of an elephant: Know your values and frame the debate. Chelsea Green Publishing, 2008.

Holmes, Emily A., et al. “Can playing the computer game “Tetris” reduce the build-up of flashbacks for trauma? A proposal from cognitive science.” PloS one 4.1 (2009): e4153.

Holmes, Emily A., et al. “Key steps in developing a cognitive vaccine against traumatic flashbacks: visuospatial Tetris versus verbal Pub Quiz.” PloS one5.11 (2010): e13706.

Skorka-Brown, Jessica, Jackie Andrade, and Jon May. “Playing ‘Tetris’ reduces the strength, frequency and vividness of naturally occurring cravings.”Appetite 76 (2014): 161-165.

Andrade, Jackie, Jon May, and D. K. Kavanagh. “Sensory imagery in craving: From cognitive psychology to new treatments for addiction.” Journal of Experimental Psychopathology 3 (2012).

Xu, Xiaomeng, et al. “An fMRI Study of Nicotine-Deprived Smokers’ Reactivity to Smoking Cues during Novel/Exciting Activity.” PloS one 9.4 (2014): e94598.

Xu, Xiaomeng, et al. “Intense passionate love attenuates cigarette cue-reactivity in nicotine-deprived smokers: An FMRI study.” PloS one 7.7 (2012): e42235.

Patel, Anuradha, et al. “Distraction with a hand‐held video game reduces pediatric preoperative anxiety.” Pediatric Anesthesia 16.10 (2006): 1019-1027.

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Russoniello, Carmen V., Kevin O’Brien, and Jennifer M. Parks. “EEG, HRV and psychological correlates while playing Bejeweled II: A randomized controlled study.” Stud Health Technol Inform 144 (2009): 189-92.

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Gackenbach, Jayne, and Johnathan Bown. “Mindfulness and video game play: A preliminary inquiry.” Mindfulness 2.2 (2011): 114-122.

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Chapter Two: You Are Surrounded by Potential Allies

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Valdesolo, Piercarlo, Jennifer Ouyang, and David DeSteno. “The rhythm of joint action: Synchrony promotes cooperative ability.” Journal of Experimental Social Psychology 46.4 (2010): 693-695.

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Moderator: Bill Ferguson, Participants: Cay Anderson-Hanley, Micah O. Mazurek, Sarah Parsons, and Zachary Warren. “Game Interventions for Autism Spectrum Disorder.” Games for Health Journal, August 2012; 1 (4): 248-253 DOI: 10.1089/g4h.2012.0717.

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Zilioli, Samuele, and Neil V. Watson. “The hidden dimensions of the competition effect: Basal cortisol and basal testosterone jointly predict changes in salivary testosterone after social victory in men.” Psychoneuroendocrinology37.11 (2012): 1855-1865.

Hermans, Erno Jan, Peter Putman, and Jack Van Honk. “Testosterone administration reduces empathetic behavior: A facial mimicry study.”Psychoneuroendocrinology 31.7 (2006): 859-866.

Zak, Paul J., et al. “Testosterone administration decreases generosity in the ultimatum game.” PLoS One 4.12 (2009): e8330.

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Carré, Justin M., Susan K. Putnam, and Cheryl M. McCormick. “Testosterone responses to competition predict future aggressive behaviour at a cost to reward in men.” Psychoneuroendocrinology 34.4 (2009): 561-570.

Carré, Justin M., Cheryl M. McCormick, and Ahmad R. Hariri. “The social neuroendocrinology of human aggression.” Psychoneuroendocrinology 36.7 (2011): 935-944.

Mehta, Pranjal H., Amanda C. Jones, and Robert A. Josephs. “The social endocrinology of dominance: basal testosterone predicts cortisol changes and behavior following victory and defeat.” Journal of personality and social psychology 94.6 (2008): 1078.

Przybylski, Andrew K.; Deci, Edward L.; Rigby, C. Scott; Ryan, Richard M. “Competence-impeding electronic games and players’ aggressive feelings, thoughts, and behaviors.”Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol 106(3), Mar 2014, 441-457.

Mihan, Robert, Yvonne Anisimowicz, and Richard Nicki. “Safer with a partner: Exploring the emotional consequences of multiplayer video gaming.Computers in Human Behavior 44 (2015): 299-304.

Chapter Three: You Are the Hero of Your Own Story

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Treadway, Michael T., et al. “Dopaminergic mechanisms of individual differences in human effort-based decision-making.” The Journal of Neuroscience 32.18 (2012): 6170-6176.

Kühn, Simone, et al. “The neural basis of video gaming.” Translational psychiatry 1.11 (2011): e53.

Kühn, S., et al. “Playing Super Mario induces structural brain plasticity: gray matter changes resulting from training with a commercial video game.”Molecular psychiatry (2013).

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Dye, Matthew WG, C. Shawn Green, and Daphne Bavelier. “Increasing speed of processing with action video games.” Current Directions in Psychological Science 18.6 (2009): 321-326

Green, C. Shawn, Alexandre Pouget, and Daphne Bavelier. “Improved probabilistic inference as a general learning mechanism with action video games.” Current Biology 20.17 (2010): 1573-1579.

Bavelier, Daphne, et al. “Removing brakes on adult brain plasticity: from molecular to behavioral interventions.” The Journal of neuroscience 30.45 (2010): 14964-14971.

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Saito, Keiichi, Naoki Mukawa, and Masao Saito. “Brain activity comparison of different-genre video game players.” Innovative Computing, Information and Control, 2007. ICICIC’07. Second International Conference on. IEEE, 2007.

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Kätsyri, Jari, et al. “When just looking ain’t enough: phasic fMRI reward responses during playing versus watching a video game.” Frontiers in Psychology (2013).

Fox, Jesse, and Jeremy N. Bailenson. “Virtual self-modeling: The effects of vicarious reinforcement and identification on exercise behaviors.” Media Psychology 12.1 (2009): 1-25.

Bailenson, Jeremy N. “Doppelgangers-a new form of self?.” PSYCHOLOGIST25.1 (2012): 36-38.

Fox, J., & Bailenson, J.N. (2010). The use of doppelgängers to promote health behavior change. CyberTherapy & Rehabilitation, 3 (2), 16-17.

Rosenberg, Robin S., Shawnee L. Baughman, and Jeremy N. Bailenson. “Virtual superheroes: Using superpowers in virtual reality to encourage prosocial behavior.” PloS one 8.1 (2013): e55003.

Nelson, Leif D., and Michael I. Norton. “From student to superhero: Situational primes shape future helping.” Journal of Experimental Social Psychology 41.4 (2005): 423-430.

Chapter Four: You Can Make the Leap from Games to Gameful

Mentzoni, Rune Aune, et al. “Problematic video game use: estimated prevalence and associations with mental and physical health.”Cyberpsychology, behavior, and social networking 14.10 (2011): 591-596

Gentile, Douglas A., et al. “Pathological video game use among youths: a two-year longitudinal study.” Pediatrics 127.2 (2011): e319-e329

Gentile, Douglas. “Pathological Video-Game Use Among Youth Ages 8 to 18 A National Study.” Psychological science 20.5 (2009): 594-602.

Chen, Lily Shui-Lien, Hill Hung-Jen Tu, and Edward Shih-Tse Wang. “Personality traits and life satisfaction among online game players.”CyberPsychology & Behavior 11.2 (2008): 145-149

Kahlbaugh, Patricia E., et al. “Effects of playing wii on well-being in the elderly: physical activity, loneliness, and mood.” Activities, Adaptation & Aging 35.4 (2011): 331-344

Jung, Younbo, et al. “Games for a better life: effects of playing Wii games on the well-being of seniors in a long-term care facility.” Proceedings of the Sixth Australasian Conference on Interactive Entertainment. ACM, 2009

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Allaire, Jason C., et al. “Successful aging through digital games: Socioemotional differences between older adult gamers and Non-gamers.”Computers in Human Behavior 29.4 (2013): 1302-1306.

Padilla-Walker, Laura M., et al. “More than a just a game: video game and internet use during emerging adulthood.” Journal of Youth and Adolescence 39.2 (2010): 103-113.

Anand, Vivek. “A study of time management: The correlation between video game usage and academic performance markers.” CyberPsychology & Behavior 10.4 (2007): 552-559.

Desai, Rani A., et al. “Video-gaming among high school students: Health correlates, gender differences, and problematic gaming.” Pediatrics 126.6 (2010): e1414-e1424

Adachi, Paul JC, and Teena Willoughby. “More than just fun and games: the longitudinal relationships between strategic video games, self-reported problem solving skills, and academic grades.” Journal of youth and adolescence 42.7 (2013): 1041-1052.

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Lo, Shao-Kang, Chih-Chien Wang, and Wenchang Fang; also, “Physical interpersonal relationships and social anxiety among online game players.”CyberPsychology & Behavior 8.1 (2005): 15-20.

Coyne, Sarah M., et al. “Game on… girls: associations between co-playing video games and adolescent behavioral and family outcomes.” Journal of Adolescent Health 49.2 (2011): 160-165.

Kneer, Julia, and Sabine Glock. “Escaping in digital games: The relationship between playing motives and addictive tendencies in males.” Computers in Human Behavior 29.4 (2013): 1415-1420.

Hilgard, Joseph Benjamin, Christopher R. Engelhardt, and Bruce D. Bartholow. “Individual Differences in Motives, Preferences, and Pathology in Video Games.” Frontiers in Psychology: 0.

Przybylski, Andrew K., C. Scott Rigby, and Richard M. Ryan. “A motivational model of video game engagement.” Review of General Psychology 14.2 (2010): 154.

Przybylski, Andrew K., et al. “Having to versus wanting to play: Background and consequences of harmonious versus obsessive engagement in video games.” CyberPsychology & Behavior 12.5 (2009): 485-492.

Stenseng, Frode, Jostein Rise, and Pål Kraft. “Activity engagement as escape from self: The role of self-suppression and self-expansion.” Leisure Sciences34.1 (2012): 19-38.

Stenseng, Frode, Jostein Rise, and Pål Kraft. “The dark side of leisure: Obsessive passion and its covariates and outcomes.” Leisure Studies 30.1 (2011): 49-62

Stenseng, Frode. “The two faces of leisure activity engagement: Harmonious and obsessive passion in relation to intrapersonal conflict and life domain outcomes.” Leisure Sciences 30.5 (2008): 465-481.

Granic, Isabela, Adam Lobel, and Rutger CME Engels. “The benefits of playing video games.” American Psychologist journal Vol. 69, No. 1, 66–78 (2014).

Dye, Matthew WG, C. Shawn Green, and Daphne Bavelier. “Increasing speed of processing with action video games.” Current Directions in Psychological Science 18.6 (2009): 321-326

Green, C. Shawn, Alexandre Pouget, and Daphne Bavelier. “Improved probabilistic inference as a general learning mechanism with action video games.” Current Biology 20.17 (2010): 1573-1579

Hubert‐Wallander, Bjorn, C. Shawn Green, and Daphne Bavelier. “Stretching the limits of visual attention: The case of action video games.” Wiley Interdisciplinary Reviews: Cognitive Science 2.2 (2011): 222-230

Bavelier, Daphne, et al. “Brain plasticity through the life span: Learning to learn and action video games.” Annual review of neuroscience 35 (2012): 391-416

Shawn Green, C., et al. “The effect of action video game experience on task-switching.” Computers in human behavior 28.3 (2012): 984-994

Mishra, Jyoti, et al. “Neural basis of superior performance of action videogame players in an attention-demanding task.” The Journal of Neuroscience 31.3 (2011): 992-998.

Steinkuehler, Constance, and Sean Duncan. “Scientific habits of mind in virtual worlds.” Journal of Science Education and Technology 17.6 (2008): 530-543

Chuang, Tsung-Yen, and Wei-Fan Chen. “Effect of computer-based video games on children: An experimental study.” Digital Game and Intelligent Toy Enhanced Learning, 2007. DIGITEL’07. The First IEEE International Workshop on. IEEE, 2007

Adachi, Paul JC, and Teena Willoughby. “More than just fun and games: the longitudinal relationships between strategic video games, self-reported problem solving skills, and academic grades.” Journal of youth and adolescence 42.7 (2013): 1041-1052.

Jackson, Linda A., Edward A. Witt, and Ivan Alexander Games. “Videogame Playing and Creativity: Findings from the Children and Technology Project.”NATIONAL SOCIAL SCIENCE PROCEEDINGS Volume 47 Seattle Summer Seminar, 2011

Jackson, Linda A. “The Upside of Videogame Playing.” GAMES FOR HEALTH: Research, Development, and Clinical Applications 1.6 (2012): 452-455.

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Shute, Valerie, Matthew Ventura, and Fengfeng Ke. “The power of play: The effects of portal 2 and lumosity on cognitive and noncognitive skills.” Computers & Education (2014)

Whitlock, Laura A., Anne Collins McLaughlin, and Jason C. Allaire. “Individual differences in response to cognitive training: Using a multi-modal, attentionally demanding game-based intervention for older adults.” Computers in Human Behavior 28.4 (2012): 1091-1096.

Przybylski, Andrew K., C. Scott Rigby, and Richard M. Ryan. “A motivational model of video game engagement.” Review of General Psychology 14.2 (2010): 154

Bateman, Christopher “Top Ten Emotions of Videogames – Results of the DGD2 Global SurveyOnly a Game (2008)

Ravaja, Niklas, et al. “The Psychophysiology of Video Gaming: Phasic Emotional Responses to Game Events.” DIGRA Conf.. 2005.

Olson, Cheryl K. “Children’s motivations for video game play in the context of normal development.” Review of General Psychology 14.2 (2010): 180

Ferguson, Christopher J., and Cheryl K. Olson. “Friends, fun, frustration and fantasy: Child motivations for video game play.” Motivation and Emotion 37.1 (2013): 154-164

Jansz, Jeroen. “The emotional appeal of violent video games for adolescent males.” Communication Theory 15.3 (2005): 219-241.

Gackenbach, Jayne, Beena Kuruvilla, and Raelyne Dopko. “Video game play and dream bizarreness.” Dreaming 19.4 (2009): 218

Gackenbach, Jayne. “Electronic media and lucid-control dreams: Morning after reports.” Dreaming 19.1 (2009): 1

Gackenbach, Jayne, and Beena Kuruvilla. “The relationship between video game play and threat simulation dreams.” Dreaming 18.4 (2008): 236

Gackenbach, Jayne. “Video game play and lucid dreams: Implications for the development of consciousness.” Dreaming 16.2 (2006): 96.

Ewoldsen, David R., et al. “Effect of playing violent video games cooperatively or competitively on subsequent cooperative behavior.” Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking 15.5 (2012): 277-280

Velez, John A., et al. “Ingroup versus outgroup conflict in the context of violent video game play: The effect of cooperation on increased helping and decreased aggression.” Communication Research (2012): 0093650212456202

Greitemeyer, Tobias, and Christopher Cox. “There’s no “I” in team: Effects of cooperative video games on cooperative behavior.” European Journal of Social Psychology 43.3 (2013): 224-228

Greitemeyer, Tobias. “Playing video games cooperatively increases empathic concern.” Social Psychology 44.6 (2013): 408;

Jerabeck, Jessica M., and Christopher J. Ferguson. “The influence of solitary and cooperative violent video game play on aggressive and prosocial behavior.”Computers in Human Behavior 29.6 (2013): 2573-2578.

Ferguson, Christopher J., and Adolfo Garza. “Call of (civic) duty: Action games and civic behavior in a large sample of youth.” Computers in Human Behavior27.2 (2011): 770-775

Ducheneaut, Nicolas, and Robert J. Moore. “More than just ‘XP’: learning social skills in massively multiplayer online games.” Interactive Technology and Smart Education 2.2 (2005): 89-100

Lisk, Timothy C., Ugur T. Kaplancali, and Ronald E. Riggio. “Leadership in multiplayer online gaming environments.” Simulation & Gaming 43.1 (2012): 133-149.

Hayes, Steven C., et al. “Measuring Experiential Avoidance: A Preliminary Test of a Working Model.” Psychological Record 54.4 (2004)

Kashdan, Todd B., et al. “Experiential avoidance as a generalized psychological vulnerability: Comparisons with coping and emotion regulation strategies.” Behaviour Research and Therapy 44.9 (2006): 1301-1320

Kanter, Jonathan W., David E. Baruch, and Scott T. Gaynor. “Acceptance and commitment therapy and behavioral activation for the treatment of depression: Description and comparison.” The Behavior Analyst 29.2 (2006): 161.

Most recently: Andrew K. Przybylski. Electronic Gaming and Psychosocial Adjustment. Pediatrics, August 4, 2014 DOI: 10.1542/peds.2013-4021

Hussain, Zaheer, and Mark D. Griffiths. “Excessive use of massively multi-player online role-playing games: A pilot study.” International Journal of Mental Health and Addiction 7.4 (2009): 563-571.

King, Daniel, and Paul Delfabbro. “MOTIVATIONAL DIFFERENCES IN PROBLEM VIDEO GAME PLAY.” Journal of CyberTherapy & Rehabilitation (JCR) 2.2 (2009).

McDonell-Parry, Amelia. “Incredibly Deep Life Lessons from Candy Crush Saga.” July 8, 2013. The Frisky.

Part Two: How to Be Gameful

Roepke, Ann Marie, Sara R. Jaffee, Olivia M. Riffle, Jane McGonigal, Rose Broome, Bez Maxwell. “Randomized Controlled Trial of SuperBetter, a Smartphone-based/Internet-based Self-Help Tool to Reduce Depressive Symptoms.” Games for Health. (forthcoming).

Roepke, Ann Marie. “Results of A Randomized Controlled Trial: The Effects of SuperBetter on Depression.” University of Pennsylvania. July 15, 2013.

Clinical Trial of a Rehabiliation Game – SuperBetter.” NIH-funded trial in collaboration with Ohio State University Medical Research Center.

Chapter Five: Challenge Yourself

Although players do report sometimes feeling frustration, anger and sadness during game play, they also report that the “pretend” context of game play creates a safe environment to practice controlling or changing these negative emotions. A good summary of this phenomenon is found in Granic, Isabela, Adam Lobel, and Rutger CME Engels. “The benefits of playing video games.” American Psychologist, Vol 69(1), Jan 2014, 66-78.

Harmison, Robert J. “Peak performance in sport: Identifying ideal performance states and developing athletes’ psychological skills.” (2011): 3.

Brooks, Alison Wood. “Get Excited: Reappraising Pre-Performance Anxiety as Excitement.” (2013). Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, Vol 143(3), Jun 2014, 1144-1158.

The seminal work on the subject of threat versus challenge mindset is Folkman, Susan, et al. “Dynamics of a stressful encounter: cognitive appraisal, coping, and encounter outcomes.” Journal of personality and social psychology50.5 (1986): 992.

Ryan, Richard M., C. Scott Rigby, and Andrew Przybylski. “The motivational pull of video games: A self-determination theory approach.Motivation and emotion 30.4 (2006): 344-360

Juul, Jesper. “Fear of failing? The many meanings of difficulty in video games.” The video game theory reader 2 (2009): 237-252.

This has been a particularly consistent finding in digital game research over the past 30 years, starting with McClure, Robert F., and F. Gary Mears. “Video game players: Personality characteristics and demographic variables.” Psychological Reports 55.1 (1984): 271-276. through Sherry, John L., et al. “Video game uses and gratifications as predictors of use and game preference.” Playing video games: Motives, responses, and consequences (2006): 213-224 and Lucas, Kristen, and John L. Sherry. “Sex differences in video game play: A communication-based explanation.” Communication Research 31.5 (2004): 499-523; also, Olson, Cheryl K. “Children’s motivations for video game play in the context of normal development.” Review of General Psychology 14.2 (2010): 180.

For an excellent overview of this research, see Drach-Zahavy, Anat, and Miriam Erez. “Challenge versus threat effects on the goal–performance relationship.” Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes 88.2 (2002): 667-682.

Troy, Allison S., et al. “Seeing the silver lining: cognitive reappraisal ability moderates the relationship between stress and depressive symptoms.”Emotion 10.6 (2010): 783.

Seijts, Gerard H., and Gary P. Latham. “Learning versus performance goals: When should each be used?.” The Academy of Management Executive 19.1 (2005): 124-131

Kingston, Kieran M., and Lew Hardy. “Effects of different types of goals on processes that support performance.” (1997).

Drach-Zahavy, Anat, and Miriam Erez. “Challenge versus threat effects on the goal–performance relationship.” Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes 88.2 (2002): 667-682.

Chapter Six: Power-Ups

Groves, Duncan A., and Verity J. Brown. “Vagal nerve stimulation: a review of its applications and potential mechanisms that mediate its clinical effects.”Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews 29.3 (2005): 493-500.

Beginning with Porges, Stephen W. “Vagal tone: a physiologic marker of stress vulnerability.”Pediatrics 90.3 (1992): 498-504 through Carnevali, Luca, and Andrea Sgoifo. “Vagal modulation of resting heart rate in rats: the role of stress, psychosocial factors, and physical exercise.” Frontiers in physiology 5 (2014).

For a basic overview of respiratory sinus arrhythmia research, see Grossman, Paul, and Edwin W. Taylor. “Toward understanding respiratory sinus arrhythmia: relations to cardiac vagal tone, evolution and biobehavioral functions.” Biological psychology 74.2 (2007): 263-285.

Thayer, Julian F., and Richard D. Lane. “The role of vagal function in the risk for cardiovascular disease and mortality.” Biological psychology 74.2 (2007): 224-242; also, Schmidt, Georg, et al. “RESPIRATORY SINUS ARRHYTHMIA PREDICTS MORTALITY AFTER MYOCARDIAL INFARCTION.” Journal of the American College of Cardiology 63.12_S (2014); also Al Hazzouri, Adina Zeki, et al. “Reduced Heart Rate Variability Is Associated With Worse Cognitive Performance in Elderly Mexican Americans.”Hypertension 63.1 (2014): 181-187; also Licht, Carmilla MM, Eco JC de Geus, and Brenda WJH Penninx. “Dysregulation of the autonomic nervous system predicts the development of the metabolic syndrome.” The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism98.6 (2013): 2484-2493; also Bibevski, Steve, and Mark E. Dunlap. “Evidence for impaired vagus nerve activity in heart failure.” Heart failure reviews 16.2 (2011): 129-135; also THAYER, JULIAN F. “Vagal tone and the inflammatory reflex.” Cleveland Clinic Journal of Medicine 76.Suppl 2 (2009): S23-S26.

Wang, Zhenhong, Wei Lü, and Rongcai Qin. “Respiratory sinus arrhythmia is associated with trait positive affect and positive emotional expressivity.”Biological psychology 93.1 (2013): 190-196; also,Patriquin, Michelle A., et al. “Respiratory sinus arrhythmia: A marker for positive social functioning and receptive language skills in children with autism spectrum disorders.” Developmental Psychobiology 55.2 (2013): 101-112; also, Fagundes, Christopher P., et al. “Attachment style and respiratory sinus arrhythmia predict post‐treatment quality of life in breast cancer survivors.”PsychoOncology (2014); also,

Bylsma, Lauren M., et al. “Respiratory sinus arrhythmia reactivity in current and remitted major depressive disorder.” Psychosomatic medicine 76.1 (2014): 66-73; also, Sturgeon, John A., Ellen WanHeung Yeung, and Alex J. Zautra. “Respiratory Sinus Arrhythmia: a Marker of Resilience to Pain Induction.” International journal of behavioral medicine (2014): 1-5; also Friedman, Bruce H. “An autonomic flexibility–neurovisceral integration model of anxiety and cardiac vagal tone.” Biological psychology 74.2 (2007): 185-199.

Fredrickson, Barbara L. “Updated thinking on positivity ratios.” American Psychologist, Vol 68(9), Dec 2013, 814-822 (2013).

Chida, Yoichi, and Andrew Steptoe. “Positive psychological well-being and mortality: a quantitative review of prospective observational studies.Psychosomatic medicine 70.7 (2008): 741-756; also, Howell, Ryan T., Margaret L. Kern, and Sonja Lyubomirsky. “Health benefits: Meta-analytically determining the impact of well-being on objective health outcomes.” Health Psychology Review 1.1 (2007): 83-136

Diener, Ed, and Micaela Y. Chan. “Happy people live longer: Subjective well‐being contributes to health and longevity.” Applied Psychology: Health and WellBeing 3.1 (2011): 1-43; also, Boehm, Julia K., and Laura D. Kubzansky. “The heart’s content: the association between positive psychological well-being and cardiovascular health.” Psychological bulletin 138.4 (2012): 655; also, Cohen, Sheldon, et al. “Positive emotional style predicts resistance to illness after experimental exposure to rhinovirus or influenza A virus.” Psychosomatic Medicine 68.6 (2006): 809-815.

How positive emotions build physical health perceived positive social connections account for the upward spiral between positive emotions and vagal tone.” Psychological science 24.7 (2013): 1123-1132; also, Kok, Bethany E., and Barbara L. Fredrickson. “Upward spirals of the heart: Autonomic flexibility, as indexed by vagal tone, reciprocally and prospectively predicts positive emotions and social connectedness.” Biological psychology85.3 (2010): 432-436.

Fredrickson, Barbara L. “The role of positive emotions in positive psychology: The broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions.” American psychologist56.3 (2001): 218.

Fredrickson, Barbara. Positivity: Top-notch research reveals the 3 to 1 ratio that will change your life. Random House LLC, 2009.

Gottman, John Mordechai. What predicts divorce?: The relationship between marital processes and marital outcomes. Psychology Press, 2014.

Schwartz, Robert M., et al. “Optimal and normal affect balance in psychotherapy of major depression: Evaluation of the balanced states of mind model.” Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapy 30.04 (2002): 439-450.

Rego, Arménio, et al. “Optimism predicting employees’ creativity: The mediating role of positive affect and the positivity ratio.” European Journal of Work and Organizational Psychology 21.2 (2012): 244-270.

Shrira, Amit, et al. “The positivity ratio and functioning under stress.” Stress and Health 27.4 (2011): 265-271.

Mather, Mara, and Laura L. Carstensen. “Aging and motivated cognition: The positivity effect in attention and memory.” Trends in cognitive sciences 9.10 (2005): 496-502; also, Meeks, Suzanne, et al. “Positivity and well-being among community-residing elders and nursing home residents: what is the optimal affect balance?.” The Journals of Gerontology Series B: Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences 67.4 (2012): 460-467.

Diener, Ed, Ed Sandvik, and William Pavot. “Happiness is the frequency, not the intensity, of positive versus negative affect.” Subjective well-being: An interdisciplinary perspective 21 (1991): 119-139.

Cryan, John F., and Timothy G. Dinan. “Mind-altering microorganisms: the impact of the gut microbiota on brain and behaviour.” Nature Reviews Neuroscience 13.10 (2012): 701-712.

Curtis, Brian M., and James H. O’Keefe Jr. “Autonomic tone as a cardiovascular risk factor: the dangers of chronic fight or flight.” Mayo Clinic Proceedings. Vol. 77. No. 1. Elsevier, 2002.

Gruber, June, et al. “Risk for mania and positive emotional responding: too much of a good thing?.” Emotion 8.1 (2008): 23.

Grant, Adam M., and Barry Schwartz. “Too Much of a Good Thing The Challenge and Opportunity of the Inverted U.” Perspectives on Psychological Science 6.1 (2011): 61-76.

Suess, Patricia E., Stephen W. Porges, and Dana J. Plude. “Cardiac vagal tone and sustained attention in school‐age children.”  Psychophysiology 31.1 (1994): 17-22; also, Katz, Lynn Fainsilber, and John M. Gottman. “Vagal tone protects children from marital conflict.” Development and Psychopathology 7.01 (1995): 83-92, also, Donzella, Bonny, et al. “Cortisol and vagal tone responses to competitive challenge in preschoolers: Associations with temperament.” Developmental psychobiology 37.4 (2000): 209-220.

Chapter Seven: Bad Guys

Kennelly, Stacey. “When Guilt Stops Gratitude.” Greater Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life. January 14, 2014.

Kashdan, Todd B., and Jonathan Rottenberg. “Psychological flexibility as a fundamental aspect of health.” Clinical psychology review 30.7 (2010): 865-878.

Kashdan, Todd B., and Jennifer Q. Kane. “Post-traumatic distress and the presence of post-traumatic growth and meaning in life: experiential avoidance as a moderator.” Personality and individual differences 50.1 (2011): 84-89; also, Orcutt, Holly K., Scott M. Pickett, and E. Brooke Pope. “Experiential avoidance and forgiveness as mediators in the relation between traumatic interpersonal events and posttraumatic stress disorder symptoms.” Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 24.7 (2005): 1003-1029.

Hayes, Steven C., et al. “Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes and outcomes.” Behaviour research and therapy 44.1 (2006): 1-25; also, Chawla, Neharika, and Brian Ostafin. “Experiential avoidance as a functional dimensional approach to psychopathology: An empirical review.” Journal of Clinical Psychology 63.9 (2007): 871-890; also, Bond, Frank W., and David Bunce. “The role of acceptance and job control in mental health, job satisfaction, and work performance.” Journal of applied psychology 88.6 (2003): 1057; Butler, Jodie, and Joseph Ciarrochi. “Psychological acceptance and quality of life in the elderly.” Quality of Life Research 16.4 (2007): 607-615.

Fledderus, Martine, Ernst T. Bohlmeijer, and Marcel E. Pieterse. “Does experiential avoidance mediate the effects of maladaptive coping styles on psychopathology and mental health?.” Behavior modification (2010); also Kashdan, Todd B., et al. “Experiential avoidance as a generalized psychological vulnerability: Comparisons with coping and emotion regulation strategies.” Behaviour research and therapy 44.9 (2006): 1301-1320.

Chapman, Alexander L., Matthew W. Specht, and Tony Cellucci. “Borderline Personality Disorder and Deliberate Self‐Harm: Does Experiential Avoidance Play a Role?.” Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior 35.4 (2005): 388-399; also, Orcutt, Holly K., Scott M. Pickett, and E. Brooke Pope. “Experiential avoidance and forgiveness as mediators in the relation between traumatic interpersonal events and posttraumatic stress disorder symptoms.” Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology 24.7 (2005): 1003-1029; also, Chawla, Neharika, and Brian Ostafin. “Experiential avoidance as a functional dimensional approach to psychopathology: An empirical review.” Journal of Clinical Psychology 63.9 (2007): 871-890; also, Kashdan, Todd B., Nexhmedin Morina, and Stefan Priebe. “Post-traumatic stress disorder, social anxiety disorder, and depression in survivors of the Kosovo War: Experiential avoidance as a contributor to distress and quality of life.” Journal of anxiety disorders 23.2 (2009): 185-196; also, Boeschen, Laura E., et al. “Experiential avoidance and post-traumatic stress disorder: A cognitive mediational model of rape recovery.” Journal of Aggression, Maltreatment & Trauma 4.2 (2001): 211-245; Tull, Matthew T., and Kim L. Gratz. “Further examination of the relationship between anxiety sensitivity and depression: The mediating role of experiential avoidance and difficulties engaging in goal-directed behavior when distressed.Journal of Anxiety Disorders 22.2 (2008): 199-210.

Thompson, Brian L., and Jennifer Waltz. “Mindfulness and experiential avoidance as predictors of posttraumatic stress disorder avoidance symptom severity.” Journal of anxiety disorders 24.4 (2010): 409-415.

Fritz, Julie M., Steven Z. George, and Anthony Delitto. “The role of fear-avoidance beliefs in acute low back pain: relationships with current and future disability and work status.” Pain 94.1 (2001): 7-15; also, Waddell, Gordon, et al. “A Fear-Avoidance Beliefs Questionnaire (FABQ) and the role of fear-avoidance beliefs in chronic low back pain and disability.” Pain52.2 (1993): 157-168; Leeuw, Maaike, et al. “The fear-avoidance model of musculoskeletal pain: current state of scientific evidence.” Journal of behavioral medicine 30.1 (2007): 77-94; also, Woby, Steve R., et al. “Are changes in fear‐avoidance beliefs, catastrophizing, and appraisals of control, predictive of changes in chronic low back pain and disability?.” European Journal of Pain 8.3 (2004): 201-210.

Lorimer Moseley, G. “A new direction for the fear avoidance model?.” Pain 152.11 (2011): 2447-2448.

Rodero, Baltasar, et al. “Relationship between behavioural coping strategies and acceptance in patients with fibromyalgia syndrome: Elucidating targets of interventions.” BMC musculoskeletal disorders 12.1 (2011): 143; also, McCracken, Lance M., and Edmund Keogh. “Acceptance, mindfulness, and values-based action may counteract fear and avoidance of emotions in chronic pain: an analysis of anxiety sensitivity.” The Journal of Pain 10.4 (2009): 408-415; Wicksell, Rikard K., et al. “Avoidance and cognitive fusion–central components in pain related disability? Development and preliminary validation of the Psychological Inflexibility in Pain Scale (PIPS).” European Journal of Pain 12.4 (2008): 491-500; also, Ljótsson, Brjánn, et al. “Exposure and mindfulness based therapy for irritable bowel syndrome–an open pilot study.” Journal of behavior therapy and experimental psychiatry 41.3 (2010): 185-190; also, Ljótsson, Brjánn, et al. “Exposure and mindfulness based therapy for irritable bowel syndrome–an open pilot study.” Journal of behavior therapy and experimental psychiatry 41.3 (2010): 185-190; Martin, Paul R., and Colin MacLeod. “Behavioral management of headache triggers: Avoidance of triggers is an inadequate strategy.” Clinical psychology review 29.6 (2009): 483-495; also, Chiros, Christine, and William H. O’Brien. “Acceptance, appraisals, and coping in relation to migraine headache: an evaluation of interrelationships using daily diary methods.” Journal of behavioral medicine 34.4 (2011): 307-320.

Steven C. Hayes, University of Nevada, Reno, Kirk Strosahl, Mountainview Consulting Group, Kelly G. Wilson, University of Mississippi, Richard T. Bissett, University of Nevada, Reno, Jacqueline Pistorello, Dosheen T. Cook, University of Nevada, Reno, Melissa A. Polusny, Minneapolis VA Medical Center, Thane A. Dykstra, Trinity Services, Sonja V. Batten, Yale University School of Medicine, Sherry H. Stewart, Dalhousie University, Michael J. Zvolensky, University of Vermont, George H. Eifert, Chapman University, Frank W. Bond, Goldsmiths College, University of London, John P. Forsyth and Maria Karekla, University of Albany, State University of New York, Susan M. McCurry, University of Washington; also, Hayes, S. C., Strosahl, K. D., Wilson, K. G., Bissett, R. T., Pistorello, J., Toarmino, D., et al. (2004). “Measuring experiential avoidance: A preliminary test of a working model.” The Psychological Record, 54, 553-578.

The Chicago-based mindfulness training center Integrative Health Partners has several different psychology flexibility measures you can review online at http://integrativehealthpartners.org/downloads/ACTmeasures.pdf, including a 49-question inventory.

Chapter Eight: Quests

Hung, Iris W., and Aparna A. Labroo. “From firm muscles to firm willpower: Understanding the role of embodied cognition in self-regulation.” Journal of Consumer Research 37.6 (2011): 1046-1064.

Vann, Barbara, and Neil Alperstein. “Dream sharing as social interaction.Dreaming 10.2 (2000): 111; Wax, Murray L. “Dream sharing as social practice.” Dreaming 14.2-3 (2004): 83; Curci, Antonietta, and Bernard Rimé. “Dreams, emotions, and social sharing of dreams.” Cognition and Emotion 22.1 (2008): 155-167; Schredl, Michael, and Joelle Alexandra Schawinski. “Frequency of dream sharing: The effects of gender and personality.” American Journal of Psychology 123.1 (2010): 93-101.

Weitzberg, Eddie, and Jon ON Lundberg. “Humming greatly increases nasal nitric oxide.” American journal of respiratory and critical care medicine 166.2 (2002): 144-145; Maniscalco, M., et al. “Assessment of nasal and sinus nitric oxide output using single-breath humming exhalations.” European Respiratory Journal 22.2 (2003): 323-329.

Damisch, Lysann, Barbara Stoberock, and Thomas Mussweiler. “Keep your fingers crossed! How superstition improves performance.” Psychological Science 21.7 (2010): 1014-1020.

Muraven, Mark, and Roy F. Baumeister. “Self-regulation and depletion of limited resources: Does self-control resemble a muscle?.” Psychological bulletin 126.2 (2000): 247.

Hayes, Steven C., and Kirk D. Strosahl, eds. A practical guide to acceptance and commitment therapy. Springer, 2004.

Hayes, Steven C., et al. “Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes and outcomes.” Behaviour research and therapy 44.1 (2006): 1-25; also McCracken, Lance M. “Committed action: An application of the psychological flexibility model to activity patterns in chronic pain.” The Journal of Pain 14.8 (2013): 828-835.

Zimmerman, B., and D. H. Schunk. “Competence and control beliefs: Distinguishing the means and ends.” Handbook of educational psychology(2006): 349-367; Magaletta, Philip R., and J. M. Oliver. “The hope construct, will, and ways: Their relations with self‐efficacy, optimism, and general well‐being.” Journal of clinical psychology 55.5 (1999): 539-551; also, Carifio, James, and Lauren Rhodes. “Construct validities and the empirical relationships between optimism, hope, self-efficacy, and locus of control.” Work: A Journal of Prevention, Assessment and Rehabilitation 19.2 (2002): 125-136; also, Robinson, Cecil, and Karla Snipes. “Hope, optimism and self-efficacy: A system of competence and control.” Multiple Linear Regression Viewpoints 35.2 (2009): 16-26.

Snyder, C. Richard, ed. Handbook of hope: Theory, measures, and applications. Academic press, 2000.

Lyubomirsky, Sonja, Laura King, and Ed Diener. “The benefits of frequent positive affect: does happiness lead to success?” Psychological bulletin 131.6 (2005): 803.

Bandura, Albert. “Self-efficacy: toward a unifying theory of behavioral change.”Psychological review 84.2 (1977): 191.

The idea of values-driven, or ‘committed” action is first described in Hayes SC, Strosahl KD, & Wilson KG (1999). Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. An experiential approach to behavior change. New York: Guilford. For a summary of studies of its effectiveness, see Ruiz, Francisco J. “A review of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) empirical evidence: Correlational, experimental psychopathology, component and outcome studies.” International Journal of Psychology and Psychological Therapy 10.1 (2010): 125-162.

Wilson, Kelly G., et al. “The Valued Living Questionnaire: Defining and measuring valued action within a behavioral framework.” The Psychological Record 60.2 (2011): 4.

Harris, Russ. ACT made simple: An easy-to-read primer on acceptance and commitment therapy. New Harbinger Publications, 2009. (If you’re interested in trying more exercises to explore your values, you can also check out Dr. Harris’ website, www.thehappinesstrap.com).

Harris, Russ. The happiness trap: Stop struggling, start living. Exisle Publishing, 2007.

Deci, Edward L., Richard Koestner, and Richard M. Ryan. “A meta-analytic review of experiments examining the effects of extrinsic rewards on intrinsic motivation.” Psychological bulletin 125.6 (1999): 627.

Werle, Carolina OC, Brian Wansink, and Collin R. Payne. “Is it fun or exercise? The framing of physical activity biases subsequent snacking.” Marketing Letters (2014): 1-12.

Chapter Nine: Allies

2014 Global Games Market Report.” NewZoo Games Market Research. May 2014.

Although there are no global stats on general leisure time (whereas there are global stats for videogame play; see the above reference) we can make educated guesses that non-digital play consumes at least as many social hours from national time use surveys that also track card games, board games and sports, such as the 2014 American Time Use Survey by the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Other national time use surveys are collected by the United Nations here: http://unstats.un.org/unsd/demographic/sconcerns/tuse/

Birmingham, Wendy, et al. “Social ties and cardiovascular function: An examination of relationship positivity and negativity during stress.” International Journal of Psychophysiology 74.2 (2009): 114-119; also, Cohen, Sheldon, and Thomas A. Wills. “Stress, social support, and the buffering hypothesis.” Psychological bulletin 98.2 (1985): 310; also, Umberson, Debra, and Jennifer Karas Montez. “Social Relationships and Health A Flashpoint for Health Policy.” Journal of Health and Social Behavior51.1 suppl (2010): S54-S66; also, Schwarzer, Ralf, and Anja Leppin. “Social support and health: A theoretical and empirical overview.” Journal of social and personal relationships 8.1 (1991): 99-127.

Holt-Lunstad, Julianne, Timothy B. Smith, and J. Bradley Layton. “Social relationships and mortality risk: a meta-analytic review.PLoS medicine 7.7 (2010): e1000316.

These are the two most common items on scientific measures of perceived social support, such as the Multidimensional Scale of Perceived Social Support (MSPSS), the Social Support Network Inventory (SSNI), and Brief Measure of Social Support (BMSS), and the Social Support Questionnaire (SSQ). Zimet, Gregory D., et al. “The multidimensional scale of perceived social support.” Journal of personality assessment 52.1 (1988): 30-41; Flaherty, Joseph A., F. Moises Gaviria, and Dev S. Pathak. “The measurement of social support: The social support network inventory.” Comprehensive Psychiatry 24.6 (1983): 521-529; Sarason, Irwin G., et al. “A brief measure of social support: Practical and theoretical implications.” Journal of social and personal relationships 4.4 (1987): 497-510; Sarason, Irwin G., et al. “Assessing social support: the social support questionnaire.” Journal of personality and social psychology 44.1 (1983): 127.

Six Weeks of SuperBetter.” November 18, 2011. On the Media. 

Goldman, Alex “The SuperBetter Diaries.” On the Media blog.

Holt-Lunstad, Julianne, Wendy A. Birmingham, and Kathleen C. Light. “Influence of a “warm touch” support enhancement intervention among married couples on ambulatory blood pressure, oxytocin, alpha amylase, and cortisol.” Psychosomatic Medicine 70.9 (2008): 976-985; Woods, Diana Lynn, and Margaret Dimond. “The effect of therapeutic touch on agitated behavior and cortisol in persons with Alzheimer’s disease.” Biological research for nursing 4.2 (2002): 104-114; Feldman, Ruth, Magi Singer, and Orna Zagoory. “Touch attenuates infants’ physiological reactivity to stress.” Developmental Science 13.2 (2010): 271-278; Lin, Yu-Shen, and Ann Gill Taylor. “Effects of therapeutic touch in reducing pain and anxiety in an elderly population.” Integrative Medicine 1.4 (1998): 155-162; Field, Tiffany, et al. “Cortisol decreases and serotonin and dopamine increase following massage therapy.” International Journal of Neuroscience 115.10 (2005): 1397-1413; Field, Tiffany, et al. “Brief report: autistic children’s attentiveness and responsivity improve after touch therapy.Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders 27.3 (1997): 333-338. Henricson, Maria, et al. “The outcome of tactile touch on oxytocin in intensive care patients: a randomised controlled trial.Journal of clinical nursing 17.19 (2008): 2624-2633; Hertenstein, Matthew J., et al. “Touch communicates distinct emotions.Emotion 6.3 (2006): 528; Kraus, Michael W., Cassey Huang, and Dacher Keltner. “Tactile communication, cooperation, and performance: An ethological study of the NBA.” Emotion 10.5 (2010): 745.

Barrera Jr, Manuel. “Distinctions between social support concepts, measures, and models.American journal of community psychology 14.4 (1986): 413-445; Cohen, Sheldon. “Social relationships and health.” American psychologist 59.8 (2004): 676.

Martire, Lynn M., et al. “Is it beneficial to involve a family member? a meta-analysis of psychosocial interventions for chronic illness.Health psychology 23.6 (2004): 599.

[McPherson, Miller, Lynn Smith-Lovin, and Matthew E. Brashears. “Social isolation in America: Changes in core discussion networks over two decades.American Sociological Review 71.3 (2006): 353-375.

Chapter Ten: Secret Identities

I recommend the following online name generators: http://www.seventhsanctum.com/index-name.php, http://fantasynamegenerators.com/, as well as the helpful article: “Tricks and Tips for Naming Superheroes and Supervillians” at http://www.springhole.net/writing/naming-superheroes-and-supervillains.htm

Linley, P. Alex, et al. “Using signature strengths in pursuit of goals: Effects on goal progress, need satisfaction, and well-being, and implications for coaching psychologists.” International Coaching Psychology Review 5.1 (2010): 6-15.

Seligman, Martin EP, et al. “Positive psychology progress: empirical validation of interventions.” American psychologist 60.5 (2005): 410.

Proctor, Carmel, John Maltby, and P. Alex Linley. “Strengths use as a predictor of well-being and health-related quality of life.” Journal of Happiness Studies 12.1 (2011): 153-169.

Peterson, Christopher, Nansook Park, and Martin EP Seligman. “Greater strengths of character and recovery from illness.” The Journal of Positive Psychology 1.1 (2006): 17-26.

Find a list of 340 Ways to Use Signature Strengths online, for free, at http://tayyabrashid.com/pdf/via_strengths.pdf

Kross, Ethan, and Ozlem Ayduk. “Making meaning out of negative experiences by self-distancing.” Current Directions in Psychological Science 20.3 (2011): 187-191.

Kross, Ethan, et al. “Self-talk as a regulatory mechanism: How you do it matters.” Journal of personality and social psychology 106.2 (2014): 304.

Fujita, Kentaro, et al. “Construal levels and self-control.” Journal of personality and social psychology 90.3 (2006): 351; also, Kober, Hedy, et al. “Prefrontal–striatal pathway underlies cognitive regulation of craving.” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 107.33 (2010): 14811-14816; also, Mischel, Walter, and Monica L. Rodriguez. “Psychological distance in selfimposed delay of gratification.” The development and meaning of psychological distance (1993): 109-121.

Ayduk, Özlem, and Ethan Kross. “From a distance: implications of spontaneous self-distancing for adaptive self-reflection.” Journal of personality and social psychology 98.5 (2010): 809.K

Hayes, Steven C., et al. “Acceptance and commitment therapy: Model, processes and outcomes.” Behaviour research and therapy 44.1 (2006): 1-25; also, Teasdale, John D., et al. “Metacognitive awareness and prevention of relapse in depression: empirical evidence.” Journal of consulting and clinical psychology 70.2 (2002): 275.

Abernathy, Barbara E. “Who am I now? Helping trauma clients find meaning, wisdom, and a renewed sense of self.” Compelling counseling interventions: Celebrating VISTAS’fifth anniversary. Ann Arbor, MI: Counseling Outfitters(2008).

Pals, Jennifer L., and Dan P. McAdams. “The transformed self: A narrative understanding of posttraumatic growth.” Psychological Inquiry (2004): 65-69; King, Laura A., et al. “Stories of life transition: Subjective well-being and ego development in parents of children with Down syndrome.” Journal of Research in Personality 34.4 (2000): 509-536; Bauer, Jack J., Dan P. McAdams, and Jennifer L. Pals. “Narrative identity and eudaimonic well-being.” Journal of Happiness Studies 9.1 (2008): 81-104.

Chapter Eleven: Epic Wins

Helgeson, Vicki S., Kerry A. Reynolds, and Patricia L. Tomich. “A meta-analytic review of benefit finding and growth.” Journal of consulting and clinical psychology 74.5 (2006): 797.

Bower, Julienne E., et al. “Benefit finding and physical health: Positive psychological changes and enhanced allostasis.” Social and Personality Psychology Compass 2.1 (2008): 223-244; Cruess, Dean G., et al. “Cognitive-behavioral stress management reduces serum cortisol by enhancing benefit finding among women being treated for early stage breast cancer.” Psychosomatic Medicine 62.3 (2000): 304-308; Antoni, Michael H., et al. “Cognitive-behavioral stress management intervention decreases the prevalence of depression and enhances benefit finding among women under treatment for early-stage breast cancer.” Health Psychology 20.1 (2001): 20; Katz, Roger C., et al. “The psychosocial impact of cancer and lupus: a cross validation study that extends the generality of “benefit-finding” in patients with chronic disease.” Journal of Behavioral Medicine 24.6 (2001): 561-571; also, Carver, Charles S., and Michael H. Antoni. “Finding benefit in breast cancer during the year after diagnosis predicts better adjustment 5 to 8 years after diagnosis.” Health psychology 23.6 (2004): 595; Danoff-Burg, Sharon, and Tracey A. Revenson. “Benefit-finding among patients with rheumatoid arthritis: Positive effects on interpersonal relationships.” Journal of Behavioral Medicine 28.1 (2005): 91-103; Garland, Eric L., Susan A. Gaylord, and Barbara L. Fredrickson. “Positive reappraisal mediates the stress-reductive effects of mindfulness: An upward spiral process.” Mindfulness 2.1 (2011): 59-67.

Sheldon, Kennon M., and Linda Houser-Marko. “Self-concordance, goal attainment, and the pursuit of happiness: Can there be an upward spiral?.”Journal of personality and social psychology 80.1 (2001): 152.

McLean, Kate C., and Michael W. Pratt. “Life’s little (and big) lessons: identity statuses and meaning-making in the turning point narratives of emerging adults.” Developmental psychology 42.4 (2006): 714; also, Bauer, Jack J., Dan P. McAdams, and April R. Sakaeda. “Interpreting the good life: growth memories in the lives of mature, happy people.” Journal of personality and social psychology 88.1 (2005): 203; also,

Duggan, Colette Hillebrand, and Marcel Dijkers. “Quality of life—Peaks and valleys: A qualitative analysis of the narratives of persons with spinal cord injuries.” Canadian Journal of Rehabilitation (1999); McIntosh, James, and Neil McKeganey. “Addicts’ narratives of recovery from drug use: constructing a non-addict identity.” Social Science & Medicine 50.10 (2000): 1501-1510; Harney, M. R. E. G. K. P. A. “In the aftermath of sexual abuse: Making and remaking meaning in narratives of trauma and recovery.” Narrative Inquiry 10.2 (2001): 291-311; Woodward, Clare, and Stephen Joseph. “Positive change processes and post‐traumatic growth in people who have experienced childhood abuse: Understanding vehicles of change.” Psychology and Psychotherapy: Theory, Research and Practice 76.3 (2003): 267-283; Bauer, Jack J., Dan P. McAdams, and Jennifer L. Pals. “Narrative identity and eudaimonic well-being.” Journal of Happiness Studies 9.1 (2008): 81-104; Maitlis, Sally. “Who am I now? Sensemaking and identity in posttraumatic growth.” Exploring positive identities and organizations: Building a theoretical and research foundation (2009): 47-76;

Nestler, Eric J., and William A. Carlezon Jr. “The mesolimbic dopamine reward circuit in depression.” Biological psychiatry 59.12 (2006): 1151-1159; also, Smoski, Moria J., et al. “fMRI of alterations in reward selection, anticipation, and feedback in major depressive disorder.” Journal of affective disorders118.1 (2009): 69-78; also, Powell, Jane H., et al. “Motivational deficits after brain injury: effects of bromocriptine in 11 patients.” Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery & Psychiatry60.4 (1996): 416-421.

Sheldon, Kennon M., and Andrew J. Elliot. “Goal striving, need satisfaction, and longitudinal well-being: the self-concordance model.” Journal of personality and social psychology 76.3 (1999): 482.

Brosse, Alisha L., et al. “Exercise and the treatment of clinical depression in adults.” Sports medicine 32.12 (2002): 741-760; Dunn, Andrea L., et al. “Exercise treatment for depression: efficacy and dose response.” American journal of preventive medicine 28.1 (2005): 1-8; Brosse, Alisha L., et al. “Exercise and the treatment of clinical depression in adults.” Sports medicine 32.12 (2002): 741-760; Byrne, A., and D. G. Byrne. “The effect of exercise on depression, anxiety and other mood states: a review.” Journal of psychosomatic research 37.6 (1993): 565-574.

Koltyn, KELLI F., et al. “Perception of pain following aerobic exercise.” Medicine and science in sports and exercise 28.11 (1996): 1418-1421; Nichols, Deborah S., and Terri M. Glenn. “Effects of aerobic exercise on pain perception, affect, and level of disability in individuals with fibromyalgia.”Physical Therapy 74.4 (1994): 327-332; Koltyn, K. F., and R. W. Arbogast. “Perception of pain after resistance exercise.” British journal of sports medicine 32.1 (1998): 20-24; Hoffman, Martin D., et al. “Experimentally induced pain perception is acutely reduced by aerobic exercise in people with chronic low back pain.” J Rehabil Res Dev 42.2 (2005): 183-190; Kuphal, Karen E., Eugene E. Fibuch, and Bradley K. Taylor. “Extended swimming exercise reduces inflammatory and peripheral neuropathic pain in rodents.” The Journal of Pain 8.12 (2007): 989-997.

Locke, Edwin A., and Gary P. Latham. “Building a practically useful theory of goal setting and task motivation: A 35-year odyssey.” American psychologist 57.9 (2002): 705.

Locke, Edwin A., and Gary P. Latham. “New directions in goal-setting theory.”Current directions in psychological science 15.5 (2006): 265-268.

Deci, Edward L., and Richard M. Ryan. “Self-determination theory: A macrotheory of human motivation, development, and health.” Canadian Psychology/Psychologie canadienne 49.3 (2008): 182.

Chapter Twelve: Keeping Score

CP Stack, Baseball Magazine, 1914, quoted in “The Joy of Keeping Score” by Paul Dickson. The Joy of Keeping Score. New York: Walker Books, 2009.

Lethem, J., et al. “Outline of a fear-avoidance model of exaggerated pain perception—I.” Behaviour research and therapy 21.4 (1983): 401-408; Crombez, Geert, et al. “Pain-related fear is more disabling than pain itself: evidence on the role of pain-related fear in chronic back pain disability.” Pain80.1 (1999): 329-339; Petrovic, P., et al. “Pain-related cerebral activation is altered by a distracting cognitive task.” Pain 85.1 (2000): 19-30.

Carse, James. Finite and infinite games: a Vision of Life as Play and Possibility. Simon and Schuster, 2011. (first published 1986)

Moore, Steven C., et al. “Leisure time physical activity of moderate to vigorous intensity and mortality: a large pooled cohort analysis.” PLoS medicine 9.11 (2012): e1001335

Pantell, Matthew, et al. “Social isolation: a predictor of mortality comparable to traditional clinical risk factors.” American journal of public health 103.11 (2013): 2056-2062.

Danner, Deborah D., David A. Snowdon, and Wallace V. Friesen. “Positive emotions in early life and longevity: findings from the nun study.” Journal of personality and social psychology 80.5 (2001): 804.

Xu, Jingping, and Robert E. Roberts. “The power of positive emotions: It’s a matter of life or death—Subjective well-being and longevity over 28 years in a general population.” Health Psychology 29.1 (2010): 9; Diener, Ed, and Micaela Y. Chan. “Happy people live longer: Subjective well‐being contributes to health and longevity.” Applied Psychology: Health and WellBeing 3.1 (2011): 1-43; Chida, Yoichi, and Andrew Steptoe. “Positive psychological well-being and mortality: a quantitative review of prospective observational studies.” Psychosomatic medicine 70.7 (2008): 741-756; Koopmans, Teije A., et al. “Effects of happiness on all-cause mortality during 15 years of follow-up: The Arnhem Elderly Study.” Journal of Happiness Studies 11.1 (2010): 113-124; Shirai, Kokoro, et al. “Perceived Level of Life Enjoyment and Risks of Cardiovascular Disease Incidence and Mortality The Japan Public Health Center–Based Study.” Circulation 120.11 (2009): 956-963.

Part Three: Adventures

Adventure #1: Love Connection

Reivich, Karen J., Martin EP Seligman, and Sharon McBride. “Master resilience training in the US Army.” American Psychologist 66.1 (2011): 25; also, Gable, Shelly L., Gian C. Gonzaga, and Amy Strachman. “Will you be there for me when things go right? Supportive responses to positive event disclosures.” Journal of personality and social psychology 91.5 (2006): 904.

Gable, Shelly L., et al. “What do you do when things go right? The intrapersonal and interpersonal benefits of sharing positive events.” Journal of personality and social psychology 87.2 (2004): 228; also, Reis, Harry T., et al. “Are you happy for me? How sharing positive events with others provides personal and interpersonal benefits.” Journal of personality and social psychology 99.2 (2010): 311; also, Gable, Shelly L., Gian C. Gonzaga, and Amy Strachman. “Will you be there for me when things go right? Supportive responses to positive event disclosures.” Journal of personality and social psychology 91.5 (2006): 904; also, Maisel, Natalya C., Shelly L. Gable, and Amy Strachman. “Responsive behaviors in good times and in bad.” Personal Relationships 15.3 (2008): 317-338; also, Gable, Shelly L., and Harry T. Reis. “Good news! Capitalizing on positive events in an interpersonal context.” Advances in experimental social psychology 42 (2010): 195-257; also, Ilies, Remus, Jessica Keeney, and Brent A. Scott. “Work–family interpersonal capitalization: Sharing positive work events at home.” Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes 114.2 (2011): 115-126; Smith, Shannon M. Wow! That’s great!”: correlates of and variability in responding enthusiastically. Diss. University of Rochester, 2012.

Wood, Alex M., Jeffrey J. Froh, and Adam WA Geraghty. “Gratitude and well-being: A review and theoretical integration.” Clinical psychology review 30.7 (2010): 890-905; also, Wood, Alex M., et al. “The role of gratitude in the development of social support, stress, and depression: Two longitudinal studies.” Journal of Research in Personality 42.4 (2008): 854-871; also, Emmons, Robert A., and Anjali Mishra. “Why gratitude enhances well-being: What we know, what we need to know.” Designing positive psychology: Taking stock and moving forward (2011): 248-262.

Lambert, Nathaniel M., et al. “Benefits of Expressing Gratitude Expressing Gratitude to a Partner Changes One’s View of the Relationship.” Psychological Science (2010); also, Sheldon, Kennon M., and Sonja Lyubomirsky. “How to increase and sustain positive emotion: The effects of expressing gratitude and visualizing best possible selves.” The Journal of Positive Psychology 1.2 (2006): 73-82.

Emmons, Robert A. “Gratitude, subjective well-being, and the brain.” The science of subjective well-being (2008): 469-489; also, Algoe, Sara B., and Jonathan Haidt. “Witnessing excellence in action: The ‘other-praising’emotions of elevation, gratitude, and admiration.” The journal of positive psychology 4.2 (2009): 105-127; also, Algoe, Sara B., Jonathan Haidt, and Shelly L. Gable. “Beyond reciprocity: gratitude and relationships in everyday life.” Emotion 8.3 (2008): 425.

Dr. Kelly McGonigal and I created the three-part thank-you as part of a special SuperBetter collaboration with the Oprah Winfrey Network: “Oprah’s Thank You Game”. You can find out more at http://kellymcgonigal.com/tag/gratitude/

I learned this practice directly from Dr. Biswas-Diener at his Strengths Intervention for Work and Relationships Workshop at the 2nd World Congress on Positive Psychology, held in Phildadelphia, June 2011. Another resource for strengths-spotting techniques is his manual for psychology coaching: Biswas-Diener, Robert. Practicing positive psychology coaching: Assessment, activities and strategies for success. John Wiley & Sons, 2010. See also: Niemiec, Ryan M. “VIA character strengths: Research and practice (The first 10 years).” Well-Being and Cultures. Springer Netherlands, 2013. 11-29; Gordon, Sandy, and Daniel F. Gucciardi. “A strengths-based approach to coaching mental toughness.” Journal of sport psychology in action 2.3 (2011): 143-155; Proctor, Carmel, et al. “Strengths gym: The impact of a character strengths-based intervention on the life satisfaction and well-being of adolescents.” The Journal of Positive Psychology 6.5 (2011): 377-388.

Hawkley, Louise C., and John T. Cacioppo. “Loneliness matters: a theoretical and empirical review of consequences and mechanisms.” Annals of Behavioral Medicine 40.2 (2010): 218-227.

Cacioppo, John T., and William Patrick. Loneliness: Human nature and the need for social connection. WW Norton & Company, 2008.

Masi, Christopher M., et al. “A meta-analysis of interventions to reduce loneliness.” Personality and Social Psychology Review (2010).

Neff, Kristin. Self-compassion: Stop beating yourself up and leave insecurity behind. New York; William Morrow Press, 2011.

Germer, Christopher K. The mindful path to self-compassion: Freeing yourself from destructive thoughts and emotions. Guilford Press, 2009.

Adventure #2: Ninja Body Transformation

Mann, Traci, et al. “Medicare’s search for effective obesity treatments: diets are not the answer.” American Psychologist 62.3 (2007): 220; also, Bacon, Linda, and Lucy Aphramor.

Weight science: evaluating the evidence for a paradigm shift.” Nutrition Journal 10.9 (2011): 2-13,

Howarth, Nancy C., Edward Saltzman, and Susan B. Roberts. “Dietary fiber and weight regulation.” Nutrition reviews 59.5 (2001): 129-139.

Pollan, Michael. In defense of food: an eater’s manifesto. Penguin, 2008.

Kaushik, Susmita, et al. “Autophagy in hypothalamic AgRP neurons regulates food intake and energy balance.” Cell metabolism 14.2 (2011): 173-183.

Miyamoto, Musashi (1974). A Book of Five Rings, translated by Victor Harris. London: Allison & Busby; Woodstock, New York: The Overlook Press.

Draeger, Donn F.; Smith, Robert W. Comprehensive Asian fighting arts. New York: Kodansha, 1981.

Jabr, Ferris. “Let’s Get Physical: The Psychology of Effective Workout Music.” Scientific American. March 20, 2013.

Chanda, Mona Lisa, and Daniel J. Levitin. “The neurochemistry of music.” Trends in cognitive sciences 17.4 (2013): 179-193.

Tsunetsugu, Yuko, Bum-Jin Park, and Yoshifumi Miyazaki. “Trends in research related to “Shinrin-yoku”(taking in the forest atmosphere or forest bathing) in Japan.” Environmental health and preventive medicine 15.1 (2010): 27-37; also, Lee, J., et al. “Effect of forest bathing on physiological and psychological responses in young Japanese male subjects.” Public Health 125.2 (2011): 93-100; also, Park, Bum Jin, et al. “The physiological effects of Shinrin-yoku (taking in the forest atmosphere or forest bathing): evidence from field experiments in 24 forests across Japan.” Environmental health and preventive medicine 15.1 (2010): 18-26.

Turnbull, Stephen. Ninja AD 1460–1650. Oxford: Osprey Publishing, 2003.

Adventure #3: Time Rich 

Kasser, Tim, and Kennon M. Sheldon. “Time affluence as a path toward personal happiness and ethical business practice: Empirical evidence from four studies.” Journal of Business Ethics 84.2 (2009): 243-255.

Roxburgh, Susan. “There Just Aren’t Enough Hours in the Day’: The Mental Health Consequences of Time Pressure.” Journal of health and social behavior45.2 (2004): 115-131; Szollos, Alex. “Toward a psychology of chronic time pressure Conceptual and methodological review.” Time & Society 18.2-3 (2009): 332-350; Kasser, Tim. “Psychological need satisfaction, personal well-being, and ecological sustainability.” Ecopsychology 1.4 (2009): 175-180.

Schor, Juliet. Plenitude: The new economics of true wealth. New York: Penguin Press, 2010.

De Graaf, John, ed. Take back your time: Fighting overwork and time poverty in America. Berrett-Koehler Publishers, 2003.

Carney, Dana R., Amy JC Cuddy, and Andy J. Yap. “Power posing brief nonverbal displays affect neuroendocrine levels and risk tolerance.”Psychological Science 21.10 (2010): 1363-1368.

Moon, A. & Chen, S., “The Power to Control Time: Power Influences How Much Time (You Think) You Have“, Journal of Experimental Social Psychology (2014).

Mogilner, Cassie, Zoë Chance, and Michael I. Norton. “Giving time gives you time.” Psychological Science 23.10 (2012): 1233-1238.

Rudd, Melanie, Kathleen D. Vohs, and Jennifer Aaker. “Awe expands people’s perception of time, alters decision making, and enhances well-being.”Psychological science 23.10 (2012): 1130-1136.

Wittmann, Marc, et al. “Social jetlag: misalignment of biological and social time.” Chronobiology international 23.1-2 (2006): 497-509.

Roenneberg, Till, et al. “Social jetlag and obesity.” Current Biology 22.10 (2012): 939-943; Randler, Christoph. “Differences between smokers and nonsmokers in morningness-eveningness.” Social Behavior and Personality: an international journal 36.5 (2008): 673-680;

Foster, Russell G., et al. “Sleep and circadian rhythm disruption in social jetlag and mental illness.” Progress in molecular biology and translational science 119 (2012): 325-346; Levandovski, Rosa, et al. “Depression scores associate with chronotype and social jetlag in a rural population.” Chronobiology international 28.9 (2011): 771-778.

Klein, Stefan. The secret pulse of time: Making sense of life’s scarcest commodity. Da Capo Press, 2008.

Pariyadath, Vani, and David Eagleman. “The effect of predictability on subjective duration.” PloS one 2.11 (2007): e1264.

Eagleman, David M., et al. “Time and the brain: how subjective time relates to neural time.” The Journal of Neuroscience 25.45 (2005): 10369-10371.

Aaker, Jennifer L., Melanie Rudd, and Cassie Mogilner. “If money does not make you happy, consider time.” Journal of Consumer Psychology 21.2 (2011): 126-130.

LaJeunesse, Seth, and Daniel A. Rodríguez. “Mindfulness, time affluence, and journey-based affect: Exploring relationships.” Transportation research part F: traffic psychology and behaviour 15.2 (2012): 196-205.

Bodhipaksa.“10 Tips for Mindful Driving.” http://www.wildmind.org/applied/daily-life/mindful-driving. For more tips, see Awake at the Wheel: Mindful Driving. (Audio Book) More Than Sound Productions, 2011.

Csikszentmihalyi, M., & Hunter, J. (2003). Happiness in everyday life: The uses of experience sampling. Journal of Happiness Studies, 4, 185 – 199.

About the Science

Roepke, Ann Marie, et al. “Randomized Controlled Trial of SuperBetter, a Smartphone-Based/Internet-Based Self-Help Tool to Reduce Depressive Symptoms.” Games for Health Journal 4.3 (2015): 235-246.

Clinical Trial of a Rehabilitation Game – SuperBetter.”

TRANSCRIPT: The game that can add 10 years to your life

In Uncategorized on January 6, 2014 at 11:27 am

The following is a transcript of my 2012 TED Global talk. Transcripts are also available here in 20+ other languages.

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I’m a gamer, so I like to have goals. I like special missions and secret objectives. So here’s my special mission for this talk: I’m going to try to increase the life span of every single person in this room by seven and a half minutes. Literally, you will live seven and half minutes longer than you would have otherwise, just because you watched this talk.

Okay, some of you are looking a little bit skeptical. That’s okay, because check it out — I have math to prove that it is possible. And it won’t make a lot of sense now. I’ll explain it all later, just pay attention to the number at the bottom: plus-7.68245837 minutes that will be my gift to you if I’m successful in my mission.

Now, you have a secret mission too. Your mission is to figure out how you want to spend your extra seven and a half minutes. And I think you should do something unusual with them, because these are bonus minutes. You weren’t going to have them anyway.

Now, because I’m a game designer, you might be thinking to yourself, I know what she wants us to do with those minutes, she wants us to spend them playing games. Now this is a totally reasonable assumption, given that I have made quite a habit of encouraging people to spend more time playing games. For example, in my first TEDTalk, I did propose that we should spend 21 billion hours a week as a planet playing video games.

Now, 21 billion hours, it’s a lot of time. It’s so much time, in fact, that the number one unsolicited comment that I have heard from people all over the world since I gave that talk, is this: Jane, games are great and all, but on your deathbed, are you really going to wish you spent more time playing Angry Birds? This idea is so pervasive — that games are a waste of time that we will come to regret — that I hear it literally everywhere I go.For example, true story: Just a few weeks ago, this cab driver, upon finding out that a friend and I were in town for a game developer’s conference, turned around and said — and I quote — “I hate games. Waste of life. Imagine getting to the end of your life and regretting all that time.”

Now, I want to take this problem seriously. I mean, I want games to be a force for good in the world. I don’t want gamers to regret the time they spent playing, time that I encouraged them to spend. So I have been thinking about this question a lot lately. When we’re on our deathbeds, will we regret the time we spent playing games?

Now, this may surprise you, but it turns out there is actually some scientific research on this question. It’s true. Hospice workers, the people who take care of us at the end of our lives, recently issued a report on the most frequently expressed regrets that people say when they are literally on their deathbeds. And that’s what I want to share with you today — the top five regrets of the dying.

Number one: I wish I hadn’t worked so hard. Number two: I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. Number three: I wish I had let myself be happier. Number four: I wish I’d had the courage to express my true self. And number five: I wish I’d lived a life true to my dreams, instead of what others expected of me.

Now, as far as I know, no one ever told one of the hospice workers, I wish I’d spent more time playing video games, but when I hear these top five regrets of the dying, I can’t help but hear five deep human cravings that games actually help us fulfill.

For example, I wish I hadn’t worked so hard. For many people, this means, I wish I’d spent more time with my family, with my kids when they were growing up. Well, we know that playing games together has tremendous family benefits. A recent study from Brigham Young University School of Family life reported that parents who spend more time playing video games with their kids have much stronger real-life relationships with them.

I wish I’d stayed in touch with my friends. Well, hundreds of millions of people use social games like FarmVille or Words With Friends to stay in daily contact with real-life friends and family. A recent study from [University of Michigan] showed that these games are incredibly powerful relationship-management tools. They help us stay connected with people in our social network that we would otherwise grow distant from, if we weren’t playing games together.

I wish I’d let myself be happier. Well, here I can’t help but think of the groundbreaking clinical trials recently conducted at East Carolina University that showed that online games can outperform pharmaceuticals for treating clinical anxiety and depression. Just 30 minutes of online game play a day was enough to create dramatic boosts in mood and long-term increases in happiness.

I wish I’d had the courage to express my true self. Well, avatars are a way to express our true selves, our most heroic, idealized version of who we might become. You can see that in this alter ego portrait by Robbie Cooper of a gamer with his avatar. And Stanford University has been doing research for five years now to document how playing a game with an idealized avatar changes how we think and act in real life, making us more courageous, more ambitious, more committed to our goals.

I wish I’d led a life true to my dreams, and not what others expected of me. Are games doing this yet? I’m not sure, so I’ve left a question mark, a Super Mario question mark.And we’re going to come back to this one.

But in the mean time, perhaps you’re wondering, who is this game designer to be talking to us about deathbed regrets? And it’s true, I’ve never worked in a hospice, I’ve never been on my deathbed. But recently I did spend three months in bed, wanting to die.Really wanting to die.

Now let me tell you that story. It started two years ago, when I hit my head and got a concussion. Now the concussion didn’t heal properly, and after 30 days I was left with symptoms like nonstop headaches, nausea, vertigo, memory loss, mental fog. My doctor told me that in order to heal my brain, I had to rest it. So I had to avoid everything that triggered my symptoms. For me that meant no reading, no writing, no video games, no work or email, no running, no alcohol, no caffeine. In other words — and I think you see where this is going — no reason to live.

Of course it’s meant to be funny, but in all seriousness, suicidal ideation is quite commonwith traumatic brain injuries. It happens to one in three, and it happened to me. My brain started telling me, Jane, you want to die. It said, you’re never going to get better. It said, the pain will never end.

And these voices became so persistent and so persuasive that I started to legitimately fear for my life, which is the time that I said to myself after 34 days — and I will never forget this moment — I said, I am either going to kill myself or I’m going to turn this into a game.

Now, why a game? I knew from researching the psychology of games for more than a decade that when we play a game — and this is in the scientific literature — we tackle tough challenges with more creativity, more determination, more optimism, and we’re more likely to reach out to others for help. And I wanted to bring these gamer traits to my real-life challenge, so I created a role-playing recovery game called Jane the Concussion Slayer.

Now this became my new secret identity, and the first thing I did as a slayer was call my twin sister — I have an identical twin sister named Kelly — and tell her, I’m playing a game to heal my brain, and I want you to play with me. This was an easier way to ask for help.

She became my first ally in the game, my husband Kiyash joined next, and together we identified and battled the bad guys. Now this was anything that could trigger my symptoms and therefore slow down the healing process, things like bright lights and crowded spaces. We also collected and activated power-ups. This was anything I could do on even my worst day to feel just a little bit good, just a little bit productive. Things like cuddling my dog for 10 minutes, or getting out of bed and walking around the block just once.

Now the game was that simple: Adopt a secret identity, recruit your allies, battle the bad guys, activate the power-ups. But even with a game so simple, within just a couple days of starting to play, that fog of depression and anxiety went away. It just vanished. It felt like a miracle. Now it wasn’t a miracle cure for the headaches or the cognitive symptoms.That lasted for more than a year, and it was the hardest year of my life by far. But even when I still had the symptoms, even while I was still in pain, I stopped suffering.

Now what happened next with the game surprised me. I put up some blog posts and videos online, explaining how to play. But not everybody has a concussion, obviously, not everyone wants to be “the slayer,” so I renamed the game SuperBetter.

And soon I started hearing from people all over the world who were adopting their own secret identity, recruiting their own allies, and they were getting “super better” facing challenges like cancer and chronic pain, depression and Crohn’s disease. Even people were playing it for terminal diagnoses like ALS. And I could tell from their messages and their videos that the game was helping them in the same ways that it helped me. They talked about feeling stronger and braver. They talked about feeling better understood by their friends and family. And they even talked about feeling happier, even though they were in pain, even though they were tackling the toughest challenge of their lives.

Now at the time, I’m thinking to myself, what is going on here? I mean, how could a game so trivial intervene so powerfully in such serious, and in some cases life-and-death, circumstances? I mean, if it hadn’t worked for me, there’s no way I would have believed it was possible. Well, it turns out there’s some science here too. Some people get stronger and happier after a traumatic event. And that’s what was happening to us.

The game was helping us experience what scientists call post-traumatic growth, which is not something we usually hear about. We usually hear about post-traumatic stress disorder. But scientists now know that a traumatic event doesn’t doom us to suffer indefinitely. Instead, we can use it as a springboard to unleash our best qualities and lead happier lives.

Here are the top five things that people with post-traumatic growth say: My priorities have changed. I’m not afraid to do what makes me happy. I feel closer to my friends and family. I understand myself better. I know who I really am now. I have a new sense of meaning and purpose in my life. I’m better able to focus on my goals and dreams.

Now, does this sound familiar? It should, because the top five traits of post-traumatic growth are essentially the direct opposite of the top five regrets of the dying. Now this is interesting, right? It seems that somehow, a traumatic event can unlock our ability to lead a life with fewer regrets.

But how does it work? How do you get from trauma to growth? Or better yet, is there a way to get all the benefits of post-traumatic growth without the trauma, without having to hit your head in the first place? That would be good, right?

I wanted to understand the phenomenon better, so I devoured the scientific literature, and here’s what I learned. There are four kinds of strength, or resilience, that contribute to post-traumatic growth, and there are scientifically validated activities that you can do every day to build up these four kinds of resilience, and you don’t need a trauma to do it.

Now, I could tell you what these four types of strength are, but I’d rather you experience them firsthand. I’d rather we all start building them up together right now. So here’s what we’re going to do. We’re going to play a quick game together. This is where you earn those seven and a half minutes of bonus life that I promised you earlier. All you have to do is successfully complete the first four SuperBetter quests. And I feel like you can do it. I have confidence in you.

So, everybody ready? This is your first quest. Here we go. Pick one: Stand up and take three steps, or make your hands into fists, raise them over your head as high as you can for five seconds. Go! All right, I like the people doing both. You are overachievers. Very good. (Laughter)

Well done, everyone. Now that is worth plus-one physical resilience, which means that your body can withstand more stress and heal itself faster. Now we know from the research that the number one thing you can do to boost your physical resilience is to not sit still. That’s all it takes. Every single second that you are not sitting still, you are actively improving the health of your heart, and your lungs and brains.

Everybody ready for your next quest? I want you to snap your fingers exactly 50 times, or count backwards from 100 by seven, like this: 100, 93 … Go!

(Snapping)

Don’t give up.

(Snapping)

Don’t let the people counting down from 100 interfere with your counting to 50.

(Laughter)

Nice. Wow. That’s the first time I’ve ever seen that. Bonus physical resilience. Well done, everyone. Now that’s worth plus-one mental resilience, which means you have more mental focus, more discipline, determination and willpower. We know from the scientific research that willpower actually works like a muscle. It gets stronger the more you exercise it. So tackling a tiny challenge without giving up, even one as absurd as snapping your fingers exactly 50 times or counting backwards from 100 by seven is actually a scientifically validated way to boost your willpower.

So good job. Quest number three. Pick one: Now because of the room we’re in, fate’s really determined this for you, but here are the two options. If you’re inside, find a window and look out of it. If you’re outside, find a window and look in. Or do a quick YouTube or Google image search for “baby [your favorite animal.]”

Now, you could do this on your phones, or you could just shout out some baby animals,I’m going to find some and put them on the screen for us. So, what do we want to see?Sloth, giraffe, elephant, snake. Okay, let’s see what we got. Baby dolphin and baby llamas. Everybody look. Got that? Okay, one more. Baby elephant. We’re clapping for that? That’s amazing.

All right, now what we’re just feeling there is plus-one emotional resilience, which means you have the ability to provoke powerful, positive emotions like curiosity or love, which we feel when we look at baby animals, when you need them most.

And here’s a secret from the scientific literature for you. If you can manage to experience three positive emotions for every one negative emotion over the course of an hour, a day, a week, you dramatically improve your health and your ability to successfully tackle any problem you’re facing. And this is called the three-to-one positive emotion ratio. It’s my favorite SuperBetter trick, so keep it up.

All right, pick one, last quest: Shake someone’s hand for six seconds, or send someone a quick thank you by text, email, Facebook or Twitter. Go!

(Chatting)

Looking good, looking good. Nice, nice. Keep it up. I love it! All right, everybody, that is plus-one social resilience, which means you actually get more strength from your friends,your neighbors, your family, your community. Now, a great way to boost social resilience is gratitude. Touch is even better.

Here’s one more secret for you: Shaking someone’s hand for six seconds dramatically raises the level of oxytocin in your bloodstream, now that’s the trust hormone. That means that all of you who just shook hands are biochemically primed to like and want to help each other. This will linger during the break, so take advantage of the networking opportunities.

(Laughter)

Okay, well you have successfully completed your four quests, so let’s see if I’ve successfully completed my mission to give you seven and a half minutes of bonus life.And here’s where I get to share one more little bit of science with you. It turns out that people who regularly boost these four types of resilience — physical, mental, emotional and social — live 10 years longer than everyone else. So this is true. If you are regularly achieving the three-to-one positive emotion ratio, if you are never sitting still for more than an hour at a time, if you are reaching out to one person you care about every single day, if you are tackling tiny goals to boost your willpower, you will live 10 years longer than everyone else, and here’s where that math I showed you earlier comes in.

So, the average life expectancy in the U.S. and the U.K. is 78.1 years, but we know from more than 1,000 peer-reviewed scientific studies that you can add 10 years of life to that by boosting your four types of resilience. So every single year that you are boosting your four types of resilience, you’re actually earning .128 more years of life or 46 more days of life, or 67,298 more minutes of life, which means every single day, you are earning 184 minutes of life, or every single hour that you are boosting your four types of resilience,like we just did together, you are earning 7.68245837 more minutes of life.

Congratulations, those seven and a half minutes are all yours. You totally earned them.

(Applause)

Yeah! Awesome. Wait, wait, wait. You still have your special mission, your secret mission.How are you going to spend these seven and a half minutes of bonus life?

Well, here’s my suggestion. These seven and a half bonus minutes are kind of like genie’s wishes. You can use your first wish to wish for a million more wishes. Pretty clever, right? So, if you spend these seven and a half minutes today doing something that makes you happy, or that gets you physically active, or puts you in touch with someone you care about, or even just tackling a tiny challenge, you are going to boost your resilience, so you’re going to earn more minutes.

And the good news is, you can keep going like that. Every hour of the day, every day of your life, all the way to your deathbed, which will now be 10 years later than it would have otherwise. And when you get there, more than likely, you will not have any of those top five regrets, because you will have built up the strength and resilience to lead a life truer to your dreams. And with 10 extra years, you might even have enough time to play a few more games.

Thank you.

(Applause)